PARENTS GLASSES.

As is well known, if not born into nurturing parents, none of us here on earth. Indeed:

Father as a mountain,

That I like in the source water,

A Mother Church piety Father,

Round for the new owner is a direct con ...

In addition, economic Mind Street Cafe, the Buddha also taught of acknowledgment parents as follows:

An Thai father heal as high as mountains,

Mary residual deep ocean

Even dedicating a lifetime,

Also do not pay all the grace of birth.

Through the above teachings, though brief simple, but it's very appreciated, by Honor duties do you have to know their parents have been imbued with the ancient ancestor of his ancestors for the day this. Moreover, considering theOcean Acousticsie Heaven and Earth, the Instant Ocean Father and Mother that sound, is like day and night, or in other words, if there is no instant Heaven and Earth Heaven and Earth, it can not create human beings ie, for So if there is no "Father birth, nursing mother" can not we. because:

Father, mother, over,

No father, no mother as a single cord. (*)

(*) Here is implying is that when we're born, when he lost his father and mother, very miserable. The father, though not brought to ache pregnant mother from the need for to bloom flower pistil declaration (birth), mother bears the fetus during the nine months of hard work, and being pregnant, eating extremely difficulties for the health of her increasingly emaciated, then use date of birth must be painful. If the birth of smooth, normal is nice, as "square round her Son" (idiom). If childbirth difficult, sometimes dangerous to the lives of the mother, is no different from the mother go to the beach alone, by the right questions:

Seafaring men have sometimes

Woman orphaned sea alone (proverbs).

After birth, the mother is also adjacent to worry for three consecutive years as the child, then worry from her father described, from slim pants broken coat, sleep until illness. In contrast, if there is no parent form as well as TB care, physical, hard mental anxiety for the spiritual from the material to life and also helping me teach you great wisdom from a child until , is not there today. And acknowledgment of the parent for the child is as big as the sky, ocean, which is feeding rice to eat each meal, which is caring for the child each cultivation sleep late at night, especially anxiety teething time, warm Top to run lo each dose or drop of milk ... then, when I was growing up, the anxiety grew more and hope that the latter will take few parts, with their useful lives, water village. In addition, the mother during pregnancy has not always close to her father, to care, to help his mother from food to eat, because the mother of all add this dish to dish it, especially the fruits are sour or sweet or a fresh delicious tea pot also should, instead of normal meals every day. When a birth mother, father and mother to knit for each dilution bottle, washing when she was weak after childbirth. When I was a month old, his father stood arrangements offering incense to offer full month for you, I pray for her for her and god bless big fast food fast, maybe that was the first time big money in life when parents have their first child. When a child is two or three months, lying on your back hand Huo Huo feet, opened his eyes looked bewildered, turning his head to the right, left, innocent and carefree smile, but make the whole family happy, truly smile I make the smiles of the faces of loved ones and family blur the wrinkles on his forehead her, because you know the smile of life, then every time went by, turn turn over, crawl, sit, hand rails parents stood up, and walked timidly steps. Spanish cheers, encourage family members rang busy warm, and in the language of their parents. Moreover, the father is often assigned first feed me pieces ... Oh! star tells all about the merits of the father for the son. Every family, every young couple newly parenting, birth to her first child, the parents always devoted love for her children, especially fathers willing to do for fun antics or Buffalo body for horse riding, as long as you are happy ... It is the father's love for you was boundless. When the children reached school age beginner, worried parents shuttle their children to school, it's right with the sentence: "I give, she welcomes" (idiom). nightly and father teach each letter to the school to so later. Therefore, the father of so enormous as her mother, who is worried dressing, feeding, teaching children ... because, only father and son fear of attacks, which bear hear more teachings mother, by proverbs:

Mother of one hundred (*)

No by intimidation father a language

(*) one hundred to 100 lashes.

Father like that, I like how?

As we all know, after the child is born, the mother is always imminent in children than fathers elected to breastfeed with breast milk when I am thirsty, (I do not cry, you do not breastfeed) , during the three years, each time the teeth, gum irritation often bite the breast, but the mother still endure pain and celebrate silently again, because, said the milk teeth, so the new mother scolded love that: "I have teeth, say anything anymore" (proverbs). When a few months, she started chewing porridge or rice paste with fish or meat, with her ​​mother's saliva for digestion, and feeding into my mouth to eat. It is the old method, this method is very convenient and has a love of the mother for the child, although that does not hap-defense born today ... Due to the merits of the mother as above, has been in oral folk poetry, proverbs as follows:

I love you see,

Nine months have heavy tongue pain.

Parents born into creation,

Chewing rice, a large fish, chewing a large bone.

Adoptive parents in heaven by the sea (poetry)

Or:

That one could count the forest,

Puzzles who counted several high heavens,

One could count the stars,

AI count, merits samples from.

or :

Gratitude to nine letters (**) islet,

Three years as many sexual partners (***).

(**) In the Execution of Confucius is said to 9 points, known as the 9 letters isles for the mother. That is: (birth), Cu (lift), Government (pat), Education (teaching), Rinse (breastfeeding), school (raised), she (literally), Easter (spoil) , Phuc (cover ).

(***) The situation here is that the parents have for you is immense, endless floral display bowl, every time I spoke to lull baby to sleep, the mother also said that faith was as follows:

For oil demand games crucifixion,

Bamboo bridge shaking bumpy climb difficult,

Difficult she walked away,

Children to school, parents go away.

or :

Parents turned out, the wild,

Parents turn back, then wisdom. ( proverb)

And birth mother also died, for a dry place to sleep, every time you wet the bed or the night I did not fall asleep, because contrary to the sun or sun, I have to get through the night to put the hammock lull me to sleep, by saying:

Autumn wind ru mother mother sleep,

Baseball all year farming.

until the child was three years old, the new parent support line. It is true that, because:

Who that mother as young,

Actually the mother even greater.

When I was growing up, my parents also worry marry nor be given in marriage (when it comes to Weddings , common folk icon Dragon ( Long ) and Phoenix ( Phoenix ) to the husband and wife or in restaurants today often named Long Phung . swim by from flexible Long, Lan, The Phoenix . If analyzed from the spirits will see: Long (positive), Lan (negative), The (positive), Phung (negative), for use Long Phung name for brevity, to indicate happiness by heaven (positive) and ground (negative) that a husband and wife in the common folk wedding: < Long Phung mix, holding false identity>).

, Sometimes and hardship with men for my children until the grandparents, so the duty to know the glass hospitality parents, just like folk songs below:

The father of three in the intensive profusely,

That charming mother conceived nine months,

Side she is wet, dry roller,

For get rewarded difficult,

Two untimely yourself up from the tomb stone worship.

Thank the following parents like that, saying how it all, only if:

Preterm premature knows high,

New child know merits samples from (poetry).

But, well, the merits of the parents are equal, so the Vu Lan season, I felt an obligation to you, not the glass fondness for mother with roses or white, right and his father. Because:

I have you as Hamlet cement sheath (idiom)

or :

You have me as the roof (proverbs)

or :

Father-heeled red like crimson,

Until the father dies, the children of black heels.

or :

Also father many lovers,

A future dead father, who is love (poetry).

Moreover, the

Father lay,

No one in the hole cracked up (proverbs) ... etc.

Today, there are many temples Vu Lan ceremony not only for the mother and father as: set the rose for the person or install the white cotton mother who lost her mother, and for his father, so one color green for those who have a father or white bow to those who have lost their father. This is a very fair action, because season every year to the King of Poland, his parents are the modern glass. The respect and fondness for his parents, think not only of material is sufficient, but mentally as well. Because, if the children fall into poverty, not enough daily living, get us to buy glass gifts to give to their parents good food objects, but only meager meal and worry about health when old parents on the way or make their parents happy, by asking or action does not make parents upset, as well as the glass tastes.

In contrast, the children, the rich take care of elderly parents, no matter difficult for some, but for that: this child has grown, wealthy, healthy parents, parents What, actions, words, disrespect makes parents upset, the glass, the hospitality of the people will not be perfect, sometimes other led to disrespect hospitality that, because we even have rich, with great determination, we are the children of the parents, the obligation to children still wear hospitality parents for life never change, so take care of new parents are full glass hospitality.

Moreover, we have seen the Buddha's worth for us to think, because he had the throne, power, pearl golden ivory cycle, beautiful wife, good ... He was happy abandon all, to this day, he is respected all over the world. Because, we should remember that: <Du we are rich or poor to dau, when dead could not bring all duoc>, so we must learn to love people as yourself, let alone respected hospitality parents .

The glass filial to their parents, not the church father and mother are equal, because the parents are born into nurturing, and everyone has a responsibility to worry, the correct answer to the question:

She taught the skill,

Father taught me wisdom (proverbs).

For parents, we have an obligation to see the mother as:

Old mother as banana,

As sweet rice security, such as sugar cane.

Either: I am old like ripe banana trees,

Wind to left orphaned children earn a loss.

(It's true, because when I am old what < Bananas ripen>, when a wind that I will be sick and die, even more if the banana more, you see a bunch of bananas ripen , because not cut up, whenever the wind, left bananas lingering in turn , have different body old mother of poisonous winds. Here are two questions keep-language very accurate-folk in Vietnam, has ingeniously for old age, weakness of her not Bananas nine different trees ).

I am old thatched hut.

Early visitors to visit the new type of labor (high range).

or :

Want to close close to his mother,

When the baskets of rice, when the money

Or, if we close only to his mother, the alien must provide delicious food for the mother, for the following:

Crayfish tail peeled off,

White pounding rice for that raising their mothers,

or :

Hungry eat their dates,

Rice to feed her, her old teeth.

Or, if we are away from their parents, children Honor your posts about gifts for parents, such as the following:

Who on my posts chamber structure,

Before her glass chamber after chamber of teachers.

or :

Who I sent the shoes,

Room when the rain and wind to the teacher mother.

If once we get to the mother, the only coal as follows:

Oh Me! Do not hit me pain,

To catch snails, two parents vegetables.

Mommy! Do not hit me again,

To catch a fish, pick mango eating mother (folk).

Then, when the girl's mother to get married, but because trade elderly parents, they sighed so want to stay close, so I blurted out the words as follows:

Mommy! Do not marry a distance,

cheep howling gibbons know where the mother.

Partridge peas Max Branch,

My husband almost did not get married far.

A mother and father's love,

Cup of rice who dug, Tea century who offered (poetry).

In ancient times, parents often have the full right to dispose of all sizes for children, including marry nor be given in marriage. Us parents choose where their children to follow, because the: Parents place where, sitting (proverbs). So, there are guys disappointed not acceptable to her parents, had lamented as follows:

Parents said, you do not say,

I have the heart to any abuse left him (poetry).

However, she insisted refuse to leave home by brother, so he uttered the sentence:

His birth mother, would not follow him,

Bad father, his mother sometimes good chi ...

My mother and father as fire lights click the trash,

Duty to my girlfriend, cute little children ... ( poetry).

The girl uttered words above for lovers indeed praiseworthy for doing duties as well as keeping children what is honorable family for parents, there is also a shrine to his taste mother.

The glass for your father and mother from the past until now are many, particularly for Confucius focused on teaching people, before Nhut to achieve the employer means that people must be honest, compassionate to the ones access around them, such as parents, siblings, and their next kin, friends, the last one in the galaxy. If for parents that we do not know studious glasses, for you no harmony can not say it was the kindness and sincerity. For parents, we have to and respected, because: trade without glasses, it can not be called the direct effect . Lunyu Book, Main Vi II, including the following story: One day, the Tu Du pupil asked Confucius about the owner . Confucius replied: Someone said Hieu foster parents, but if adopted without glass, different animals, get something to distinguish. Thus, foster parents must respect, oil eating ham and drinking water, but parents are still happy. At birth parents money, you should live close to their parents to take care of meals as well as drinking the medicine when sick father, so I do not go away , by saying:

"Accessories samples exist, electronic traveler's impossible"

父 母 存, 子 不 可 远 游

(My parents did not go far).

Also, in the idiom question: "Where, parents." In case you have to go away, let your parents know the time, place clear to parents peace of mind, from the oven , by saying:

"Spare form, any telecommunications, tourism, travel all the property" (Lunyu, Ly Nhan IV).

父 母 在, 不 远 游, 游 必 有 方

The hospitality director which have meaning Ceremony. Mass is the reason right. That is according to the German right. Specifically, the glass hospitality parents does not mean that parents always do the wrong thing, I have to listen to it. But the duty to know to stop doing the wrong parents, bad, if parents themselves standing pat, keep doing wrong not listen, then you must select the word duty courteous, moderate cost, and then from from separation should have left, congenital said many times, to open most parents up to avoid. Therefore, if the parents do wrong, bad that you'll close your eyes and do the will of the parents, the children were also guilty of disloyalty as usual:

"Government authorities from that body real functions u any means, or any means neglect spending.

父 有 责 子 息 亲 不 陷 于 不 义, 当 不 义 则 责 之

Spare parts command an elect of hospitality "= 从 父 令 安 得 为 孝

Therefore, you must always maintain honor and information that parents, by listening to teachings or perhaps to their parents and parents to stop doing the wrong things, bad, so I to be considered to take the leading hospitality round. In addition, you can also taste continuation character, action, good job of parents do, but do not blindly, not thinking end of the wall: "fake badges good design more press, good the personnel expenditure fake " 夫 孝 者 善 继 人 之 志, 善 述 人 之 事 者 也 (Commandeer)

When meeting the parents, Confucius also reminding children should pay respect to the worship of their parents and ancestors. Moreover, the taste is also have to respect the people that parents respect and love parents who love business. Therefore, the child must after a tribute, trade ideas money parents when he was born or died: "Dear periodic basis exists, the charity itself, from birth, death as the existence 敬 其 所 存, 爱 其 所 亲, 事 死 如 生, 事 亡 如 事 存 (Commandeer) ..

A filial son, also known to be the life of the parents to rejoice annual glad to see parents increased longevity, long life with children and health anxiety to see more and more parents elderly. When parents are too current, who respectfully hospitality parents should also remember the rider to date and time for the truth to the original parent. Above, is the single-election, citing the concept of filial to their parents regardless Tu proposed by Germany .

It is known that Germany does not deny Death 孔 夫 子 born in the winter months 10 year Canh Tuat, the 21st year of King Ling Wang Zhou ie in 551 BC, the son ofSalary NgOT and Gaming Thi, he died in 497, died at age 72, buried in the grave not, Dance Accessories district, in the province of Shandong 2 vinegar. Duc Phu Tu was a humanist, a great master of the historyChina. InHis works and disciples as: Face In, TYeah, Lo, Mencius ... include : Pentateuch is Business, Marketing, Poetry, Ching, Imperial Feast, Beijing Spring and Autumn and the Four Books Foundation,CommandeerLunyu, Mencius ... Germany regardless of the uterus are thinkersChinaThe first refers to the fundamental relations not only of Confucian background but the background Philosophy Chinaof Death (Se Perfectionner) - Qi Rates (Diriger are Famille) - Tri Nations (un Gouverner pays) - Binh Thien Ha (Pacifier Le Monde) including Three Cang Spirit, Father and Son, Phu Phu and Wuchang That, Mass, knowledgeable, Credit for macho, women must fulfill the obligation Tam Tong "In spare parts, Parts, Spare Parts E" ie when the girl at home dad to listen to his mother, while married to her husband, when her husband died, according to children. In addition, to preserve from Germany is, capacity, language and behavior.

Glass mirror modern parents a lot in books such as: Nhi Thap Tu Hieu, Kim Van Kieu, Luc Van Tien In particular, in Four Books (Analects, Mencius) also spoke of King Shun was the lice hospitality, worthy of our contemplation. literature , disciple Mencius , asked Mencius : Do not understand why when he Shun plowing in mountain Calendar, often looked to the sky, crying crying crying? Strong Death replied: Shun genuine carbon resentment and attachment grave. Every child, the parents have a business, happy and does not forget to thank your parents. But parents have hated the children of hard pit parents and never resentment coal. So, why Mr. Shun carbon resentment parent?Gong Ming Cao(A disciple of TU ) said that: the heart of the dutiful son no end to grief if not the love of their parents, so he Shun new coal! I bring my best to plow, which is nothing less than to fulfill an obligation to do alone, also business such parents, have any errors in that? While Mr. Shun working hard in the middle of the field, where the mountain Calendar, King Yao ordered child 9 boys 2 girls and promoting his serve Shun , then give full things like beef abstract, barns. Next, the intellectuals in the world, and to pull together by Mr. Shun very crowded, then the original King Yao Mr Shun onto ruled with King Yao , to later ceded the throne to him. He Shun oil ruling regent chief and king, but because there is peace with his parents, Mr. Shun himself as the poor man did not know who to rely on. He Shun intellectuals in the world, and welcome and you dress, it's the will of the people, so that he be not enough solve all his sorrow. Moreover, he Shun his beautiful servant parties, which is the basis of everyone's education, wealth levels and especially natural death of the whole world, but not enough the concerns of his sorrow. Only harmony with their parents all can solve all this sorrow. Angry lifetime of hospitality always grave attachment parents at an early childhood, only see the mirror in the King of Shun only.

One day, go home, my parents sent rice milk, when he was on top of the tree was pulled straight, and his father is his ship immediately burned rice Shun through two bamboo sieve axillary pairs that fly down peace . Another time, his parents sent him to dig a well, as he dug to the bottom of the well, he also was his ship along with his statue is the one you other parent immediately install it. But Shun dug out a niche line to defend, so he was in a niche to the line up from the well. Thought that, Mr. Shun dead, he went Statue shouted: "Staff installing wells to bury States troops (he Shun replaced right king in the city completely) due to my work place. Thenceforth his beef and lamb Shun , we will give our parents, his barns will belong to us, as can weapons and over about Section, birds, plants also have to touch one, two sister-in-law will make the beds for us Statue ... Then he went to the king, that he agree to sit on the bed that held single vision, when King Shun said: This Tuesday and his people, he will be assigned to you to help him rule, Meanwhile his new statue bad ashamed red face.

Also, where tastes of children as he doth not only great for parents to be respected, but also their parents and enjoy the many flowers because he Shun king, of course, his ship was the father of natural death ie he Shun made ​​for parents to be respected, noble so and bring yields the galaxy to take care of their parents. That is Mr Shun had fought meet parental Thank Hall.

In Thi Thien Dai Nha it is written: "Do you always consider directed to your father and mother" , so for posterity ties, ie children imitate. In addition, the poetry is written: "King Shun church father is he ships very glass, when to visit, timid father, feared. therefore, his ship was last touched to become Republic His agreement with Shun is my son ". For Emperor Shun concept in the world as parents before Nhut, anything to make their parents happy, to parent harmonious, loving with children. If the child makes parents upset, though the king and respected by everyone in the galaxy, admire and wholeheartedly favored, King Shun not considered important by parents. Action parental devotion of King Shun , Shun king do that alone. So the should compliment life king Shun is higher hospitality in the galaxy so ... (Mencius).

Separate signaling Buddhist and Buddha often mention filial many Nhut in the business such as: West, Le Luc Phoenix, Discrimination,Anguttara, Museum of ... Buddha for being very clear about the following acknowledgment born into nurturing, great parents, who shall have the duty to take care of physically and mentally, as evidenced in economic Mass Schedule Liturgy , taught children must have parental obligation is summarized as follows: Obedience and help parents, studious, diligent, keeping room and family honor, protection of natural production, encouraging parents to do good, spiritual enlightenment to avoid suffering later, time to take care of elderly parents, until the parents died, the funeral should follow the customs and circumstances ... In addition, the patience, the Buddha taught: "All good, nothing is higher than the taste, all the evil bad first is disloyalty" (Bach unfortunate fondness for money, thousands of real evil fondness for drugs = 百 行 孝 为 先, 万 恶 不 孝 为 最.) Because, thanks parents too thick, so great that, if the child plays the father, carried her to his left shoulder throughout both the local mountains and rivers, and massage servant for life, sometimes the parents of your profile on the shoulders without being complained of is not enough to pay off thanks parents (BusinessAnguttara). Doing this continues, children reciprocate thanks father mother just by providing the service enough material things or the money is not enough to reward delivery of the baby to nurse duc.Ngoai, children should also advise parents to practice giving and candidates, if approved by the parents agree, they look like complete directed to your father and mother.

In Vu Lan economic described results of his mother Moggallana threatened thick in ghosts, because her birth money the Basin, greed. Although he Moggallana saw the miracles, that all the three worlds, but he could not save her mother from their own cozy place, but by paying voluntary power of the monks cross, the Vu Lan holiday quarter. Follow his example Moggallana , Buddhists oil busy hundred surface, but to the Vu Lan holiday signaling also the temple to chant, penitent to pray for loved ones, especially those who have parents too current is soon as pure transcendence. Case, if we have the opportunity to wear that do not taste or see the glass leading hospitality is important or sometimes treat their parents badly, because I think that a parent's duty to to take care of our life. If parents are so poor that despise and sometimes let shall disturbing words parents for money so we can live happily forever ... Let us not forget that: "No parent born into a nurturing, no we in this world" so do not worry and glass modern parents, we sometimes rich actions disrespectful to your father parents in old age, because of collective identity: "I play hard, give riding naked" (idiom), the parents extremely poor. Therefore, once we became parents, new understanding and acknowledgment parents, true to the question: Nursing from parental tri An 养 子 方 知 父 母 恩 ( Confucius ) that the new child know the thanks of parents.

And once we take the opportunity to honor filial to their parents, they will regret as you take care of , because when you take care of business successfully, to foster parents no longer available, so when the father mother was still alive, we have to take care for parents, your new valuable and meaningful when parents grandparents, shall have the duty to take care of graves, offerings to ghosts parents' early rebirth scene world peace.

It is the duty of children to parents to know the real glass tastes so right.

For today's children, with the material civilization as civilians, have changed the living of the family, because they proved to be fast, easy to absorb, even children in wage work own, while Grandparents, Parents turn this old, slow, difficult to absorb the material civilization, more money does not equal the children, so there are some families they do not worry Parents wholeheartedly support the elderly to lead to not PARENTS glasses as they used to be.

It is the duty of children to parents to know the real glass tastes so right.

Part of this addition:

After all PARENTS glasses have been published, there are many friends write poems satisfied, by the same idea, I wish you the children born since the late 20's, followed by customs ancient times from the three time two bottles, in four great sometimes the same way, the children and grandchildren to eat in general, in peace with one another, although there is no house, spacious vehicles, office great intelligence, with machines of all kinds today are: phone, computer (ordinateur = computeur) Phones, Internet, TV face up ... But then, life peacefully in the loving home and family around a house.

For today's children, with the material civilization as civilians, have changed the living of the family, because they proved to be fast, easy to absorb, even children in wage work own, while Grandparents, Parents turn this old, slow, difficult to absorb the material civilization, more money does not equal the children, so there are some families they do not worry Parents wholeheartedly support the elderly to lead to not PARENTS glasses as they used to be.

That is, the general mood was hurting for elderly parents no less.

Furthermore, we are pleased to old age suffer less because: Parents and children infinite, new to parenting from birth, when I am sick parents worry so they all sick to grow up people and have little choice but marry nor be given in marriage as a duty is fun,

In contrast, the child loves his parents is limited, so when parents are sick, to their eyes, ask some questions to see enough ...

In addition, the money, the house of my parents is, on the contrary, money, my house was not the father I am, so you spend your money comfortable Parents, Parents need my money not easy at all

And today, Parent also placed where parents have to sit there, because, I've taken the liberty to choose the wife or husband after divorce again, we ponder life ... END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER.( VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS.GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.16/9/2012.)NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).