As well as the other values of life, happiness also has its conditions. Conditions of happiness are the elements that make up itself.
Almost everyone to that money, beauty, fame, social status ... are factors that bring happiness to people. However, through understanding and analysis, it was found that happiness also depend very much on the perception, awareness, the feel of each one. The happy condition of man is also not the same happy condition of woman. Most of the men noticed elements that bring happiness to them is power, status and money, whereas factors bring happiness for women is love, family shelters, children, success in relationships, career and money is just secondary. The conditions of happiness? These factors would make it so happy? Money, fame, position ... is just one of the factors contributing to happiness, they are not the only factor in the decision. Can understand happiness is the pleasant, relaxed state, feel satisfied, pleased, happy, so if the body is not healthy, the family is not cosy, nice not relationships, job trouble, suffered much pressure stress in your life, whether money, fame, the status has brought happiness to us? Just when life is balance and harmony, or only when we mastered the wanted in the Palm, find inner joy, we have to be happy. Latest new condition of happiness.
People try to find out whether the successful woman are not happy, then see that success is not the decisive factor to bring happiness. There are many women who are successful in their career, have a lot of money, fame, status in society but they are not happy. There are also successful men happy? According to the poll in April 2008 by Nielsen-leading company in terms of providing information and marketing, with the participation of nearly 30,000 people across 51 countries, the factors of power, status and money have made men unhappy with women. The study also said that happiness does not depend on the elements of power, status and money. As well as such, one thing makes it hard to believe that the poor often feel happy than rich people (according to the Nielsen survey on the sense of happiness in the various groups: men and women, rich and poor). Watch out from time long been erroneously assessed the value of life. For that money in life, especially for practical social current consumption, are indispensable conditions to bring happiness, it seems there is awareness "fact" but turned out wrong.
However, it's not easy to get the balance and harmony in your life, only the master wants her, living with joy inside the mind to be happy. If you do this, though in the circumstances we also get pleasure and happiness. For example, there are people who despite their poverty, deprivation of material things but they still have happy thanks to know self satisfied, knowing fun with what you have, not requiring, not expecting much. The great degree of humanity lives not because of his fame, silver coins as people all over the world that they are still seeing an cheer, optimism and happiness. The austerities, too, life without the pleasures of enjoyment, so that they remain impassive, no sorrow, no complain whine.
Happiness has to be from the master of the tham want is unconditional happiness. For example, when helping a lot of people without expecting gratitude quotes, we feel happy and more comfortable when the expectation that brought jobs and benefits for themselves. The misconception and the like, the desire for money, fame, status and have made people forget about the value of life, such as friendship, love, peace, joy and the satisfaction with what is there, altruism, love, peace and serenity of mind and so The value of this life brings happiness to them one, they always exist within us and around us but we accidentally forgot to remove.
During the financial crisis and the global economy, in Estonia it is implementing ideas establishing a bank called "happiness Bank" (Happy bank). Other than the normal Bank, the Bank of happiness "financing" and "loans" the ideas, initiatives to bring joy, happiness for everyone to overcome the difficulties during the economic recession. People who use the service the bank account opening happiness and enriched his account by dedicating the idea and doing many good things of interest to the social community, bring happiness to everyone. Greater account when there are many ideas, initiative and contribution doing many things well. Here the rich have is not having that money was the contribution to the community, society. The Bank's interest is the joy and happiness that I have been doing well. Participants invest Bank happily aware that happiness is not dependent on the value of money, so that they do not, the psychological crisis before the State's economy, they found that although poverty about money but the wealth of the soul still created for life more fun and happiness. Through the activity of the Bank is happy to know and love each other more, knowing sharing, help each other, the same hands to improve your life. Hundreds of Community Forum organized by the happy Bank enabling people to Exchange and share the experience of living, practical useful ideas that bring joy, happiness for everyone.
Happiness is always a human target towards. Everybody knows, are the living accommodations, eating sleeping, work out, work to the physical body exists, the need of living, cultural spirit to foster emotional, psychological. However, living life like how to be happy is what's important, which is both an art, requires more in cognitive skills, thinking and acting in the course of life.
The wrong perception about the value of life is the major cause leading to unhappy life. This causes impact from each man's own career (career), the living environment, the family and social circumstances. For example in modern life, because the wrong assessment about the value of money that people lose the happiness of families, lose yourself, social happening many vices. Money may be as a catalyst to create happiness, but money cannot change the happiness, money does not buy happiness. There are many value the happiness that money cannot buy, it's the lives, health, love, joy in work, in life, in love, trust the family warmth, pleasure in relationships with family and friends ... When recognizing deviations will result in thoughts and action, negative, such as nasal chúi on making money but forget happiness, forgetting both yourself (skip the fun in your personal life, family life, social, forget the interest of health, preventingtreatment of the disease, regardless of age, etc.). Because the target term for money that is not afraid to use the evil conspiracy, causing create crimes, in violation of the law, contrary to morality, such as corruption, embezzlement, fraud, robbery, gambling, selling good wholesale perfume ...
Now press headline critical of bad singers, actors are created, the lure by "Breeze", clothed body shows. The cause of this phenomenon is the wrong perception, deviance about beauty, about human values, the value of art. A singer, actress and beautiful in the eyes of fans who not only external beauty (beauty, shape) but also in that the level of art, performances, a spirit of service, professional ethics ...
There are subtle, know feel happiness in life or not is also the cause for people with or without happiness. Having been a harmonious, balanced life between matter and spirit, between the individual, the family and society is not easy. There are successful people outside but failed, contrary, the success of the family but not successful apart from society. If that to achieve this goal, involving criteria be fun, be happy, and then forget all these other life values, to your achieving your goals then both a process striving is all a long way subtle is not happy. But if more subtly, know the feeling of joy, happiness in your lives and works, in the course of efforts, aware that happiness always present on every journey we came across, one must know the feeling it, though not yet reach the goal we still have happy, we still had fun. Also like to wait to reach the goal and then we have the happiness to know where after that goal also has other targets are set out, where is the end goal; but so happy there were only minor temporary happiness and short-lived, ever we get lasting happiness? Or if we do not achieve the objective? Where are all the efforts are successful at all. For example, if a child who thought themselves see only happy, happy when your child learns self-motivated, Member, then that person will not be happy when your child was little kid. In fact that person may be very happy to play on the Court, when shuttle children to school, when r u sleeping child, when mớm the Fed etc.; which means he can find happiness in the process of raising children grew. Consequently, there are happy or not happy, there is happiness more or less happy also depends on him feel happy or not, and feel less or more, depending on whether we know create happiness for ourselves or not. END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.11/6/2013.NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).