FORGIVENESS.

When looking at bad things, we think there will be a better deal. When to do something nice, we also have to be careful, don't let its results into bad. Learn to forgive others is also known to put away the anger in his heart, is true to the saying "help people to help themselves".

Ca woman with disabilities say more, every time you get a chance to say that she is saying are not Muslim. But there is no bad location Center, but due to the tough talk, said that her words would be said relative though not intentionally. those who do not understand is that she is single.

Her husband's drug addiction is happy or sad, his at-at is no fun not sad, he was also smoking. Fit-he has just release the smoke gardens lum, ignored the discomfort of people.

Wives often lament of husbands specialized in releasing the smoke. While my husband was also very annoyed because his wife much Gabby. Every time my wife started talking much about anything, he took the cigarette out of sitting in the middle of the House, igniting, railway.

The couple so that the rice such as blessing, not sweet.

One day the couple to quarrel, husbands are unhappy mood after pipes holding the twins struck his wife. His wife Huang He ran straight out of the gate, hitting Sam into a real khất has just gone through, she immediately monks took the attachment:

-Master, save!

He chased her husband arrived, she was already married to phang monk stretches from back:

-He hands back, what panic talk!

Despite being fierce anger, but saw the monks prevented, husbands also thought the belly: "story of two married couples who had such good stuff, now back as noise too so that people know the hiding? Most are back in front of a monastery ". He then throws the pipes go, hậm hực says:

-Teacher, his wife and son could too!

-Stories, tell the Hospice increased visibility.

Wives rush pics says:

-Teacher husband, throughout the day, releasing the smoke flooded the room, it's not so unbearable, says a few sentences, he defeated the then ...

Just said just to embarrass and close the bag, lose her sịt cry.

He stacked up:

His wife and son-it says throughout the day, what is said. The work of the already tired, have heard it saying the nagging ear, he told how fast children are!

Moderate conservative clerics exist:

-Equity story turned out to be nothing, let's calm down, consider tips increase doubles player.

Has calming fierce anger so the couple together in silence to listen to the monks said.

The monks opened with a question:

-Please bring up are known, he has recently started to smoke from time to time?

Although not understand this is unrelated to the arguments of the couple, but said her husband also a:

-Evening, when young, having smoked.

The gentle monk says:

-Age youth are ages about to mature, is set at common son do adults. He smoked, would just like to comment that seems to be of men, it is a good idea. Also my sister here really doesn't say much since birth. Habits perhaps because want to express ourselves, to understood that out. That demonstrates your value is not what's wrong.

The couple looked at each other and thinking. Monk says:

-Start are all good ideas, but the two siblings are unaware of self discipline. He became addicted to the drug, perhaps from always do not know. He let the cigarette is harmful, for it hurt both his relatives again.

Then the monk looked at his wife:

-Is she here does not understand the moral has less then you are more then squander. Although the words are, but said too much then the listener nor do the ears anymore. On the other hand, say many, is easy to say the right words, wrong said.

As to the monks said, as feels right, the attitude to them clearly on the face. Sometimes my sister my wife back a Californian banquet. Thus, the monk continued:

-That when we look at a person, found their behavior is bad, without doubt in their eyes, our behavior is bad. Sometimes we do not spitefully because of his mistake, but spitefully with someone else's mistake. I just wanted to tell you that, "what bad behavior is sometimes derived from the engine isn't bad". When looking at bad things, we try to think so, there would be a better deal. When to do something nice, we also have to be careful, don't let its results into bad. Learn to forgive others is also known to put away the anger in his heart, is true to the saying "help people to help themselves".

And the monk smiled back. END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER.( VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS.GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.7/10/2012.)NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).