Merit and demerit points are the two categories of emotions in contrast, always do our inner vibrations stimulate arousal or inhibition, bringing peace or negativity, beneficial or detrimental, depending on both the object of "give and receive". Be considered to praises and criticism is the same.
Who is the man nobody wants as farce, is the puppet in the eyes of others. The criticism has nothing to blame, if it is comment with sincere attitude and appropriate space. But for me, the fall of us too big so difficult to accept suggestions from people around.
If we would certainly merit being received with joy, Hon openings, happy but not properly praise and rewarding to pride if it is not accompanied by a specific action.
The psychology of man is like being complimented rather than cooking, because hearing the praise more ears, easier, more emotional sublimation, etc ... but living in the Us, how this lady can always correct, so it must be right that wrong, fairly and unfairly, has preference disabled willthat compliment all the must-have cooking.
But damn, the way other people cooking up stars which is a hard thing. Both also is an art. The cooking was as a performer in the darkness but required to convey the soul to the audience, so what does it mean? The cooking is having a profound experience, profound knowledge, communicate well, understand the thought of, especially to have "straight" curve is not turning. Thus, the correct cooking properly, praise the new object. Also who was criticized as a new to the profession, how to demonstrate ability, ability to work, a field in any situation, in order to embrace all that is going on outside with plenty of things not as you wish.
Together we renewed the Buddha left at that. One day, the Buddha and pretentious mid take Bhikkhu Ratãgahã and Nalandã. Tntt Gentile clergyman is after Suppiyo and a disciple was Brahmadatta. Suppiyo use of means of canceling stock, destroying the French grip, cancel stock increases. in contrast, Brahmadatta youth used a myriad of vehicles believed to scatter, scatter exclamation exclamation, agreed.
When night had just hit, they put the Flag on the pretentious talk to each other. The Buddha arrived, after the Lord teaches that:
"The American Flag, if pretentious cancel stock, destroying the French grip, cancel the stock rise, ye shalt not so being happy or angry hatred, born of sorrow ..."
"If the American Flag believed to scatter the pretentious one evening, endorsed by France, believed to Increase, you should not complete the wedding party who, like, should not be disguised."
Why the Buddha to teach the masses how pretentious Bhikkhu because he argued that the blame, anger, sadness, when praise is such a happy, stress is harmful, and do not know exactly which are the words of true or false.
According to the response of the people, as if being attacked, they must fight off anyway as implacable enemies. There are new so demonstrate your domains, no minorities, Franciscan, not effeminate and ignorant. Eager mind wins it produces thoughts.
In the quarter-finals of the Second chapter, the Buddha had taught: "when bad guys disruptive insults please try to hold their ceremony as someone who presented the figures, they do not accept, then 24-he was returned. As well as the head of foam, foam side up into the sky of such wisdom to the contrary, a fall in his hand ... ".
Learn how to hold their silence does not mean that we lose "yourself", fear of others in his poor early reviews, which hold their Gerald to return the gift to the person who is defamed. The victory was that it be expressed when we find ways to get revenge for what is called "debt". There is no way of thinking positive and informed.
Although the evening were criticised, we also welcome Hy thorough review, analysis of right and wrong, to from which to draw to himself the most suitable one for yourself. Because the greatest masters of a man no one else is myself. No one can claim, required us to change if it is shown that the inappropriate and unnecessary. Thus, each individual must learn to change, improve, renew themselves, "soi" on the larger mirror.
In his book "Cooking and Cooking" author Tran Xuan Snow wrote this: "if it had just been cooking, we've flushed purple ears are a part of us remains so poor, can never be" gentleness ". Has just been cooking, have fears, as effeminate, hardly go further on the path of creativity for life as well as for themselves. With cooking, but who do not acquire, review, is disrespect, pride, is a traitor to himself. Been cooking, Super duck express omission for pleasing the demerit points are false. The Conservatives and the University itself, the Amir and authoritarian, the ignorant that the best-selling Chinese author alive hợm, are often less able to tolerate his cooking ". A proper perspective every time.
Damn someone was a difficult job but have enough of a practice range to embrace the word damn is harder. Let's calmly listen and go into detail each person's saying damn, meanwhile our minds almost down and not uttered the words pointless. Don't let emotion take you to think that you are being overwhelmed or feeling of inhibition, which find in every sentence criticized a right thing which ourselves we need to change.
Whether, and how, we should also not worry other people are thinking about us. If taken properly, we're going to be someone else controlling emotion and was dependent on word of mouth as well as their actions.
Take out the external review, filtering the information needed, look for yourself who you sincerely, because only those who you owe me a new confidence to one listen and change. From there, we will see and evaluate everything, would reduce interest in the reviews from outside. Don't ever turn yourself into the real need, not want to listen to criticism, whether it's true value.
Whether unknowingly or deliberately that we must listen to these remarks lack the root causes, you gently walked through it and give up the intention of seeking to give reasons why so. When the Center is everything unharmed. consider what the fullness that we have and be glad.
In this life, keeping a mind that stabilize the compliments started, or the scathing comments, or criticism, etc., is not simple. All of which takes time and perseverance, patience and concessions to listen to in all situations of life. END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER.( VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS.GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.6/10/2012).NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).
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