LESSON OF LOVE.

For centuries Westerners often view the concept of matter and spirit are two completely different things. I hope that today we should not underestimate the emotional state of mind as well as life experiences. Although the world is now so many advances in science, but we prefer not too eager to forget about science, but human love. Because true happiness must come from within our interior . His Holiness the Dalai Lama If our lives based on the success of science and physical satisfaction, the truth is that happiness is momentary and fleeting, if not then usually suffering. So when we live with love and humanity, our hearts will be more optimistic and our life is more hope. But if we just hope that does not lead to empty the hope that action will not bring any benefit. As a Buddhist monk, I usually pray, but I honestly believe that only truly new action brings results but only prayer alone is not enough , because the real results usually by action, not only by hope alone. As the human condition, no one can avoid suffering. But if we will look at life with an optimistic notion, we would greatly reduce the stress, anxiety and depression . If we only look at life in a pessimistic angle and suffering they are engulfed. In terms of n ay Buddhism teaches that when someone harms us, we will anger rises violently if we always think it's bad to harm his people. But if we admit that in different angles and see what they have had good or do good things in life it is time that they will be less angry and felt my heart more tolerant. As such direct Buddha taught us methods reflect a problem in more depth in many different angles, so that we can extend forgiveness to who had caused much harm and suffering for us. When we do this is also charn tragic end, suffering so well spread, our hearts will be happy because we have solved the problem of a positive way. In fact, we all are born equal and are entitled to enjoy life like each other happy. Just as we are to live together on earth and can not destroy other creatures. Although we do not like your neighbors, we still have to live next to them. On the economic front too, we must keep the environment relative to other countries, including countries hostile. Therefore we need to live with the spirit of selflessness and generosity than we can find happiness for yourself. According to scientists, one must have love, the brain can develop properly. It now also shows the human nature is love, mercy and kindness. When we developed this essence nicely, even animals we should not kill again. The sad truth is that if we tried to forget the suffering of a creature, while we would like to live and feared death as we do. Speaking of suffering, then Buddhism is divided into three categories. The first type is the pain of body and spirit. The second type of suffering and happiness of his hobbies are changed. And Tuesday is kind of suffering to realize very short life t direction . Any case that if we suffer patiently observe the problem with peace of mind and wisdom is the mental pain would be greatly reduced. When confronted with these difficult circumstances, we will have great efforts and try. Then if the achievements are really quite exciting, even if failure is also nothing to regret, because we have done our utmost fulness. We also need to remember one thing, that's when compromised encroaching unreasonably, we will have to react, or defend themselves against. But whatever the situation we have to try to halt hatred . Because when the mind was anger control we will no longer clear again and also so that our actions will not go on target. Suffering is what people fear, but sometimes painful re- is essential because it can help people be aware of the problem identified. Also, when people collide with the suffering of life, the sense of suffering will come to lead the human will to freedom from suffering. Buddhism teaches us to believe there is life after death and the causal theory of karma . If you really believe in what we now need to always be kind with the kindness and responsibility towards all around us. This will give our hearts peace peace before any change of life. When you live true to others, we also develop compassion regardless of distinction because if the mind, then at some point we will also take advantage of people that have to be inferior. When confronted with the suffering of others, rather than ignored or powerless we open the sincere compassion to share with them the suffering of all humanity, so that his pain will be eased and we have done a good thing. If we have true compassion we will easily be sympathetic sadness and compassion of others arising from it. There are two kinds of love and compassion. Compassion is really rational love, and love of the world usually comes from the heart desires and concerns. For example, when a beautiful appearance, the mind immediately emerged the desire and desire that belongs to her beauty. Kind of love that comes from desire and problems, so not real but merely a delusion arises. It is today that we can love him deeply but just something that happens immediately emotionally as a result of our change. So that love and compassion will not have problems because it can be tough since then tomorrow another love becomes hate. But with the love of true compassion, we can see the suffering of others. With this kind of love we will not distinguish who is who is your enemy, which are all brothers and sisters together. Many people, when having too painful scene, they came to the theory of karma and that what happens in the present is usually due to old business. We have to distinguish two different levels, if not misunderstood the theory of karma. Because of the grace and charming women . For example, when we suffer because of social injustice, we might think that grace is the reason of the individual business contacts. What makes the coastal charming side of ripening is the injustice of society. So as I struggle against oppression and injustice is the right thing to do. However, sometimes experienced the suffering that humans can change, become more compassionate. That is the nature of suffering. But we should remember whatever the cause, when faced happy sorrow we tried to avoid falling and pessimistic condition and depression . We need to have the courage to solve problems and not make the problem more severe. For the feelings of emotional conflict, too. If we do not have the opportunity to express emotional conflicts, the truth is dangerous, because in later life, when there is occasion how we outbreak all the anger and hatred on others. So to avoid this extreme, no to conceal or suppress the pain from the inside, but do not express the anger or a disastrous hostile . Once anger emerged think we try to test whether anger can bring any utility or its consequences can be really horrible. A man and obnoxious bad anywhere, but if we will find out, they still have their good points. When we think about the good of them, with immediate anger will go. It is also a good way to reduce anger and hatred in their hearts. Conversely, if we nurture patience and kindness are our inner feeling always cheerful and happy. If anger is so great, why? At that time we should focus his mind on something else nice. Or we practice breathing methods to bring Buddhism is close your eyes and pay attention to the breath out gently. Count the breaths will help our anger slowly cooled. Also do not try to suppress and conceal anger as this is like nurturing hatred increasingly large in our minds. So that says a few sentences rather harsh but more comfortable. Through life, joy and happiness is relative. So we need to practice to get an average life does not fall into two extremes too happy or too hard. If our life is always stressful for many of the two excited states of joy and sorrow is not good. When the spirit of peace of mind we will be strong, smart without external push. Living with this wisdom will help us a lot in solving problems and adapting to life. Catering to the joy and happiness of others with selfless hearts for their disinterested approach also gives us a healthy happy mental rest. Because the man, who also has the seeds of compassion and love, just sent us to nurture and develop this faith, we can help those unfortunate people who lack compassion, the who lack the ability to live happily with fun as the other lucky person. But we also do not forget that if we live and hope for so much that one day we will be disappointed, then life is not fun anymore . As human beings desire happiness is a natural conversation. But if we are so happy that my personal disregard for the welfare of others or break their happiness is something we must avoid. The civilized world today faces many financial meltdown important. The reason stems from the lack of love and kindness. Looking deeper into the problem we see that the dangers of nuclear weapons is terrible man. But to put an end to this human disaster really have love and respect each others lives. It is important that we must pay attention to early childhood education to the environment they are familiar with who you are kind and particularly close to his parents and children in the family. The love of the family plays a very important role in helping children healthy physical and spiritual development and love for those around you. Because love and compassion not only is the development of mankind, but a survival of humanity.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY BACH LIEN HOA.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).22/1/2012. His Holiness the Dalai Lama.