What to Do When Love lost Buddhist perspective?
Nothing worse than lost love, pain when someone you love rejected you. Feelings of shame, pain, anger, overwhelming crisis may exceed the tolerance of a normal person. That situation could become a disaster for the same person.
Surprisingly, Buddhism has many helpful tips for those who lost love. There are two schools of thought occurs.
One is advised, "Please leave." This means you get up, go out with friends, who always tell you you are great, you are very beautiful and you have they can cry on his shoulder.
This is not a bad advice. You are great. You still seductive. You have good friends who always gives you pleasure. However, it only reduced the pain a few hours only. The two are often blame themselves, "Is there something wrong you caused by a new lead to secondary status." This means that lovelorn failure thoughts, actions, words from your small form generated conflict. This school does not help make the peace for you and make you fall in love peace all. Love can never be peace that is the opposite. The moment you think it is safe, love fades. Love is predictable, scalable and acceptable when you find out who matches your standards rather than allow him themselves. If you only wish to know that they are forever, that's not love. Very many open centers to provide counseling to those who lost love. Buddhism is advising people to "feel the feeling. Giving up the story. "This means that you try to feel what happened need not explain, do not blame anybody. So you as a warrior. The more you allow clean burning feeling this way, you'll be less confused. Here are three useful tips to Buddhism for those who lost love. 1. Develop your relationship with your care assessment. This can be done through meditation. When you are shaken because of strong feelings, you need exposure to equilibrium. Spend time each day thinking about what good you want, simply watching television or entertainment you can get their balance. Heart of lost love like wild horses. You can not jump and do not go. It will beat you repeatedly. So you just follow them for a while until the feeling of true development. Meditation can help you achieve this. 2. Stabilize your heart with open status. When you win a little sense of discontent as the domino players in mind, you will feel your attention into what was worse, screaming, looking for things in the chest and heart. So, how to see things as a lovelorn love with something infinite do.Ban open your mind to feel and open state of mind is invaluable. Buddhism does not encourage you to play his mind. Instead, acknowledge the open state of compassion, love, the possibility of extensive connectivity will enable you to get out of love lost and regain balance. Well, no love lost. The best way to do this instead of sitting there crying as your loving compassion meditation charity. This way, bnaj started shifting gradually looking for love from the "I want a lover I" with "I want to find ways to love it." With such gradual changes, the whole world will change. When most people say they are looking for love, what they want is for someone who can love them and they will love back. However, you can change the previous formula is that you love every day and want it presented. In this way, by bringing the love to others, the secret path, but make sure to help you heal your broken heart. Try it a try. 3. Look at his life as a road. With a clear sense of stability in mind and heart, the third stage becomes something different. There is no way any practice related to this. With a clear mind and emotions will calm you can feel his life as a road. You can create the foundation for all life, both joy and suffering, meeting and parting, to go and get it very deeply. Dark energy losses take you to this situation. With wide open, you will see your life as a story. With the heart is damaged, you may find that giving love and how large it is difficult to make love safe. This is impossible. So what do you do with these two facts? It's your way. No one can tell you how to combine them. Where to start is by focusing on raising awareness myself, about others and flow of life. When you do so, you begin to notice that each day you continue to turn the cycle on and off with the moments of love and lost love. Both exist, to go out with you and you. Every little thing such as a lesson for you to live fully awake.
END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY BACH LIEN HOA.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).QUANG TUE LIEN,( TSERING DOLMA).TAM NHU,LE VINH.
Surprisingly, Buddhism has many helpful tips for those who lost love. There are two schools of thought occurs.
One is advised, "Please leave." This means you get up, go out with friends, who always tell you you are great, you are very beautiful and you have they can cry on his shoulder.
This is not a bad advice. You are great. You still seductive. You have good friends who always gives you pleasure. However, it only reduced the pain a few hours only. The two are often blame themselves, "Is there something wrong you caused by a new lead to secondary status." This means that lovelorn failure thoughts, actions, words from your small form generated conflict. This school does not help make the peace for you and make you fall in love peace all. Love can never be peace that is the opposite. The moment you think it is safe, love fades. Love is predictable, scalable and acceptable when you find out who matches your standards rather than allow him themselves. If you only wish to know that they are forever, that's not love. Very many open centers to provide counseling to those who lost love. Buddhism is advising people to "feel the feeling. Giving up the story. "This means that you try to feel what happened need not explain, do not blame anybody. So you as a warrior. The more you allow clean burning feeling this way, you'll be less confused. Here are three useful tips to Buddhism for those who lost love. 1. Develop your relationship with your care assessment. This can be done through meditation. When you are shaken because of strong feelings, you need exposure to equilibrium. Spend time each day thinking about what good you want, simply watching television or entertainment you can get their balance. Heart of lost love like wild horses. You can not jump and do not go. It will beat you repeatedly. So you just follow them for a while until the feeling of true development. Meditation can help you achieve this. 2. Stabilize your heart with open status. When you win a little sense of discontent as the domino players in mind, you will feel your attention into what was worse, screaming, looking for things in the chest and heart. So, how to see things as a lovelorn love with something infinite do.Ban open your mind to feel and open state of mind is invaluable. Buddhism does not encourage you to play his mind. Instead, acknowledge the open state of compassion, love, the possibility of extensive connectivity will enable you to get out of love lost and regain balance. Well, no love lost. The best way to do this instead of sitting there crying as your loving compassion meditation charity. This way, bnaj started shifting gradually looking for love from the "I want a lover I" with "I want to find ways to love it." With such gradual changes, the whole world will change. When most people say they are looking for love, what they want is for someone who can love them and they will love back. However, you can change the previous formula is that you love every day and want it presented. In this way, by bringing the love to others, the secret path, but make sure to help you heal your broken heart. Try it a try. 3. Look at his life as a road. With a clear sense of stability in mind and heart, the third stage becomes something different. There is no way any practice related to this. With a clear mind and emotions will calm you can feel his life as a road. You can create the foundation for all life, both joy and suffering, meeting and parting, to go and get it very deeply. Dark energy losses take you to this situation. With wide open, you will see your life as a story. With the heart is damaged, you may find that giving love and how large it is difficult to make love safe. This is impossible. So what do you do with these two facts? It's your way. No one can tell you how to combine them. Where to start is by focusing on raising awareness myself, about others and flow of life. When you do so, you begin to notice that each day you continue to turn the cycle on and off with the moments of love and lost love. Both exist, to go out with you and you. Every little thing such as a lesson for you to live fully awake.
END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY BACH LIEN HOA.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).QUANG TUE LIEN,( TSERING DOLMA).TAM NHU,LE VINH.
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