SOURCE OF HAPPINESS.

Conventional wisdom about human love and compassion is the relationship depends on who is my wife, the other is my husband, my children, friends and relatives of my relatives. With such bias, we just love to love and protect their own things of that neglected responsibilities and duties to others. While the nature of things are always changing so emotional so easily modified as well. Such a friend is always pleasing to us, things are good. But one day something happened against that left heart, the people that we see as a close friend today could become the most hated enemies. In married life, too, if we love a person because of superficial attraction artificially, then over time, feelings we have for him will fade. Although it is still the same person, but when they lose the charm it will completely change cnahr. Moreover, we humans have a habit of seeing the poor, the disabled, the offer of mercy. But when you see the wealth or fame than his good name is brought envy and competition with them. The emotions of this bias makes us unable to see the same equality between people and people. this is inconsistent with true compassion because even if it is compassion for the person's appearance has changed how, our love for it has not been altered. Likewise, the negative feelings that we forget that everyone, rich or poor, relatives or relatives, they also have the same hope and wish that to be happy as we fear suffering. So we need to purify ourselves to be able to escape from Nahr emotional effects of this bias. The nature of the qualities like compassion, patience, tolerance and forgiveness is the source to guide us to happiness. Thus, when we as compassionate to others, then we are the beneficiary of a lot happier. Many people believe that the care, sharing the suffering of others, as we will bring sorrow to yourself. If you only look at a certain angle, it may be true. But there is a difference between one's own pain and suffering experienced when shared with others with compassion for yourself it will give us a kind of love experience filled with warmth, so that the suffering will be reduced a lot. Certainly there will be many obstacles on the path of service benefit and happiness of others. So myself and struggling to afford the happiness of others put on a par with his own happiness. Sometimes through the experience of suffering is also useful. When we see suffering, it reminds us of the tolerance of others and in our hearts inspire empathy with others. Such suffering is a necessary experience for human life can learn from that lesson of love and compassion. For example, when faced with adversity can push us to go to the hatred and negativity, we can transform them into tolerance and forgiveness to develop their own spirituality. If you are a Buddhist on the path, we must always remind ourselves of the duty to serve all sentient beings, not just for their loved ones, including service for children who are less fortunate and suffering the most. At the same time we are not aware of the responsibility to create discord and division among people and other people as well as discord among the community members of human family. An important point for the community to preserve peace is an attitude born basics and know to stop in time. Because of the nature of greed is the source arise envy and conflict. The atmosphere of hostility and disputes as the pollution of our minds and bring misery to people living in the community. The nature of greed and possessiveness are never satisfied, satisfied. For example, a person holds all the power and economic engine in the hands of a nation, but because of greed seeks to conquer the economy and even another country. Therefore, improved mental and moral respect is also our responsibility. Referring to our responsibilities at the global level, I mean the lack of sincerity and honesty in the relationship between human beings. Sometimes our appearance seemed to get along, but the truth is not. We should know that when we disguise these things while we are inner things. The lack of honesty is what makes people doubt, fear and avoidance. Conversely, if we live true, we will reduce suspicion and misunderstanding to individuals or communities. Thus, we also contribute partly to their ability to create happiness for ourselves and others. Although it is difficult to bring peace and harmony true as we wish, but the foundation of love and compassion coupled with our responsibility to all people, I believe that they I have high hopes for building a just peace and happiness for mankind in the future. Original: His Holiness Dalai Lama.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY BACH LIEN HOA.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).23/1/2012.