Let go of suffering When envy, we can't bear to see other people happy, wealthy, famous, there are many talented and good qualities. We want to destroy the happiness and the good qualities of others, thought that things that should have belonged to himself. We can disguise the envy, or search the reasons justify it, but when whisked off the crust, cover it completely, we will clearly be the envy bad know how. The envy can ruin the relationship from the inside. I envy with others because they have relationships with people we love. I envy in the work environment when someone else got the job I wanted. When another person to play football better than me, playing the guitar better than I, have much more trendy clothes, or get into a better school ... we all envy. The envy is related to both the border disputes between countries and in disagreements between the political parties in the same country.
Sometimes we are too jealous to insomnia or unable to concentrate on work. Mind the envy I have motivated the speech or ruin the job happily and the happiness of others. It turned me into a rogue, dishonest.
The envy comes from the wrong perception of a situation. With the altitude, falling mortgage envy taken to the idea: "my happiness is more important than anyone else 's. I can't stand when people have been happy that I desire. "
Method for treatment is to be aware of situations with a more open mind, don't just look to the happiness, the benefit or detriment of our own, but also of others. Remember, others are keen to happy, too happy to get the physical benefits and nice chance, also enjoy interaction with people, and also appreciate the compliments. When such thinking, it will deeply impact to our conscious mind.
When another person get something nice, why don't we find funny? We often say, it's great when someone else has to be happy. Now, there are people who are happy and we even did not have to do anything to help bring happiness. The DIY angrily with Ronan really doesn't mean anything.
We are not always the best person or get the best stuff. A child crying, arguing and trying to spoil your fun, when you it has to be something that it isn't. We are the responsible adults imitating children, are responsible citizens created harmony in society, so would be very helpful if we feel ourselves happy and pleased with the good things of others. As such, both we and others have been happy.
For example, when a colleague gets promoted and we think you deserve more. If we only look at the incident with its own point of view, we will suffer and envy. The envy don't make us or the other to be happy. It also does not help us achieve anything, because the envy could not steal his the other person to carry on for him. If we remember that, other people are happy with the progression and wanting everyone to share, we're going to have fun with the fortunes of the people. And so, even with people he has fun.
Adjusting the attitude of envy my fact is easier when the only relevant to a small event, such as someone is a gift but we do not have. But the fun with other people's pleasures will much more difficult when it meant the loss of ourselves.
Take one example, who your mates were unfaithful in relationships sometimes litter. If we respond with envy and then yelling, cursing, even beating him, I also do not mitigate are suffering because of jealousy, as no other people are convinced that the maintenance of relations with the us are good things. When to let the flame burn continuously jealous, I will always be insecurity, suffering and hatred. In addition to that, we will probably speak or behave in a way that other people hate him, and so would preclude the re-establishment of relations.
Although we do not forgive the wrongful conduct of the other, but if keeping the calm, we will not suffer too much pain. In addition, we will be able to maintain relationships, open minded. And so, both me and him are going to be comfortable to go after the meet or chat. This will also open up the ability to get other people to, if they want to.
In summary, the end to give Ronan will help us avoid the giằn chores inside. Meanwhile, the fun with the good things and other people's success will bring happiness to both.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.26/7/2013.NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).
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