BUDDHIST CAN NOT LIVING PASSION?

Emotional relationships between men and women, between relatives and between friends together, ie erotic, intimate feelings, friendship. Buddhists are still mortal, so parents can not have, can not have friends. In addition to the monastic life, Buddhists should have married. Buddha beings known as "charming" ie without the above three categories are not sentient beings. Buddhist is Buddhist mortal beings.

All the contacts, relationships between people, must be equitable, legally. If you just say Buddhism own sexual isolation alone is no way to make people in general towards Buddhism door. If the teaching of the Buddha is not the hard part, the religious feelings of people.

"Compassion," which is like Buddhist teaching different emotions. But the basis of compassion is love between people and people, people often say that love. But love also has the distinction "love conditional or unconditional," "the self" or "non-self". The compassion of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas are selfless. Love between people is the self. The love between relatives is unconditional. Love between men and women, friends may be conditional, and may be unconditional. According to Buddhism is the basis of love given to selfless compassion.

Since Bodhisattvas are selfless, selfless beings can not, therefore, necessary to guide them education from the self pity moving to self compassion, compassion must have a love for myriad conditions condition. Thus, Buddhism can not ask people to give up the love life.

Buddhists should resolve emotional issues like? The family is the basis of the relationship. Establishments family said that moral sentiments are siblings. It is made up of husband and wife relationship, men and women, thereby expanding the scope of the friends of the people outside of the family and social activities that constitute the need to have intimate feelings. Chinese proverb "At home, based on the perturbed mother, out of your friends", "bony side up, break centenary" all based on emotional basis. There is no love and no oil slick machines prone to malfunction due to friction damage. The goal of Buddhism is the teaching of secular changes conflict into harmony. So there are two Buddhist teachings do not change the wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is reason, compassion is feeling. Use wisdom to direct compassion, compassionate use may help human emotions from worldly chaos becomes order, from conflict to become harmonious. If detached from the emotional intelligence of reason is easy to loose, bohemian lead to harmful consequences both his, just bad people.

There is a Buddhist scripture entitled "Homage Hexagonal" tells the story of India, at the time of Buddha Shakyamuni is a kind of religion teaches people to worship Hexagonal specialist. Buddha once met a young man named Thi-Ca-La-Vietnam worshiping Hexagonal with a sincere attitude, he asked him, What worship? Youth does not answer, just say follow the teachings of his father, when his father was alive, usually six local worship. After his father died, people still worship the Hexagonal. Buddha said: "Buddhism teaches worship Hexagonal: filial piety to parents oriental feast, feast respected teacher as the South, is offering couples the Western harmony, love your friends ceremony is the North , care workers, their job is to help reduce local festival ("bottom") in honor of the feast of the upper ("on"). At the same time, he said, parents with children, teachers for game, for all employees, he began to lay people also have to have the attitude and responsibility. This is the scope of moral emotional relationships between people and people, skillful handling of emotional problems to have legitimate emotional lives is the first step in Buddhist practice. "

Products "Buddhist" in the "Vimalakirti" have recorded conversations between him and Samantabhadra Bodhisattva Vimalakirti. Samantabhadra Bodhisattva asked: "Do you have parents, wives and children, dear relatives and friends, so there is not too many depressing reasonable?" means "Vimalakirti is great Bodhisattvas, have dear family how to live in order to be?" Vimalakirti replied, "My mother is the wisdom, my father is a method of sentient beings, his wife and children is fun to practice law because that would be, my daughter is represent compassion, my son Delegates to mind is good and to be honest, we have families but families that represent the "not" absolute, our students are all living beings, we are friends of different religious traditions. The beautiful girl dances around us are four types of media photographers beings ".

Products "Buddhist" of economic "Vimalakirti" including people and the things of life at home. Vimalakirti not be the bondage that makes not reverse itself in the know take great wisdom to use and promote compassion. Despite the emotional lives as normal people, but he has an inner world and in their own liberation.

It can be seen that Buddhists should not give up his love life, but to take direct physical to emotional harmony with reason. If intelligence can be used to direct the physical emotional, life will be abundant, convenient, abundant, their beneficial interests.

The guiding principle of Buddhist wisdom and teach us how to handle the emotional issues, rather than demanding we throw away, leash or hate all emotional. If you use inappropriate emotions, use emotions without restraint, it will be a disaster. For example, parents love their children for granted, but if overly pampered children are born damaged. Boys and girls love each other but have sex before marriage, adultery or it will happen more complex problems for the family and society. In the relationship between friends with each other, with different teachers, relative to each other, and all the other helpers must rely on reason to express feelings, otherwise trouble occurs.

Buddhism does not oppose love life that leads us to have life to love how reasonable and lawful.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.17/8/2013.NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).