Sunday, 3 August 2014

ORAL - LOVE LANGUAGES.                                
Ai is the main language: words softly, softly sweet, cute easy listening, compassion stems from petal, comes from a pure heart, comes from our heart of man as a pity. Ai verbal language is not lip service, not rhetoric, is not polite, flattering words, that remains pleasing to the listener, not a real, sometimes intentionally contain the within. Loving work to bring peace, joy, peace serenity to the listener. Loving comforted effects on brain temperature soul, fearful anxiety.
                 
ORAL - LOVE LANGUAGES

Words do not lose money buying
Choose the word that comes to pleasing each other.
Tam said nothing sad,
happy heart cute sweet words.
Having love, as much as,
End Trade then, said downstream reverse said.
Word Easier said another offense.
honest sweet words of love.
Having said what love is easy.
Past injuries and said regardless of cost.
speaking angrily multiple launch center.
compassionate By not saying one wall.

In everyday life, to be able to understand each other know each other, exchange news, popular culture, the language users, ie: handwriting and voice. Sometimes, not the written word, not the voice, but people can also learn to know each other through posture, gestures, facial expressions, attitude, or voice. A major problem for Vietnamese families living abroad are: language issues. For previous generations, Vietnamese is the mother tongue fluently so obvious, even the local language is not fluent.
regard to the next generation, is fluent in the local language, but also Vietnamese mother tongue , but said it stumbles, wry, nghiu lisp. Why so? Because generation after absorbing western culture, social contact with the outside more, even in the family, previous generations want to speak the local language to the next generation, so the previous generation forgetting about teaching Vietnamese coax to the next generation, even if the mother is Vietnamese. Two generations speak two different languages, Vietnamese and dialects, so can not sympathize with ease. Not understanding each other stories often lead to family breakdown happy, that natural life of suffering affliction, is inevitable.
Couple talking two different languages, different real hard so sympathetic. And two people speaking one language, why, there are other reasonable sympathetic, or vice versa, with easy affordable touch each other? Why so? Because, despite speaking the same language, but according to the words, depending on the voice, or depending on the way say, two different people may sympathize, or touching each other. Words have greatly affected the lives of every living person on this earth. Though known before, or not know, when met, people often: say hello to one another. Greetings, cleverly polite, cheerful, maybe start a relationship, long-term good.
Someone to tell them, even if only a word, who always popular, well liked and Trade , was also sympathetic, well trusted, and are listened to. There is also the open mouth, despite much talk, and nobody, nobody is listening, and undesirable, and no one likes. There are words bring cool in the minds of the listeners. The listener feels like drinking a refreshing sip of nectar. There are also words that listeners have come to anoint the islands, either, headache pills, sometimes fainting, or is, always stay breathing!
Thus, we agree that words are is important, have a great influence in the daily lives of all of us. If someone feels life more miserable, very painful, not fun, not peace, that is, the people that need to readjust words, for both easy listening, to just cute. Why so? Because the people that also want to hear the word cute so catchy. Or, one needs to adjust the sound, just enough to hear, so as not to bother other people, who need quiet to be a pure soul, and to be comfortable rest.
According to the book books that teach people how to handle life, there are many methods to gain popularity by word of mouth. Such as: How do advise others when they do wrong, wrong, or wrong thinking? For example: any words from the mind of the listener? For example: There should tell other families know, when someone in the family is doing something wrong? There are many principles, many methods, many techniques, how many books, how many authors have mentioned this problem. However, in Buddhism, this problem is solved more simply:
If you want to speak with Buddhist center, which is compassionate petal, or pure mind, then we should talk. If you want to tell ma mind, the mind that is expected or malice, we should not say. Why so? Because, when we were ma mind control to speak, that we are now creating voice, and then forever, we ourselves were propelled into rebirth, suffering many lives. What is not there to help her yourself, how can anyone help you with this? Books have a saying: "It concerns everyone. Lamps everyone the light" means that this is.
During the scope of this article, we consider the problem words, through the teachings of the Buddha alone. In Buddhist teachings, speech problems mentioned places: One is in the French Quarter Photography, which is: " Language of Love ". Two is the Noble Eightfold Path, which is: "Right Speech". Three are in the French Quarter of Medicine, which is: " That Real Health Care Language ".
* 1) Firstly, we learn words through the French Quarter Photography. Four French Photographers can practice photography for human performance center, consists of four things: giving, loving, benefits administration and colleagues. Let us examine past: What is " Language of Love "? - Ai is language: words softly, softly sweet, cute easy listening, compassion stems from petal, comes from a pure heart, comes from our heart of man as a pity. Ai verbal language is not lip service, not rhetoric, is not polite, flattering words, that remains pleasing to the listener, not a real, sometimes intentionally contain the within. Loving work to bring peace, joy, peace serenity to the listener. Loving comforted effects on brain temperature soul, fearful anxiety.
Hence, we know the words, and laughter, sometimes causing the good feelings, sometimes causing aversion , animosity between people with each other. Just missed a word, when the big damage. Just missed a word, with the arm and, being sued, even, imprisoned, just because people do not have ears to hear, so put it away advertising space! This also depends who, at times, depending on your mood, or depending on the listener's feelings anymore.
In the book " Diseases of importation accomplice. Painted accomplice export ". That is the disease, usually from the mouth, into the body, causing harm. Disaster struck, often by words, from the mouth, causing hai.Chung work we know that, in addition to fame and wealth, in this world, people often disputes with each other, just as words. Two people talking, with each other for a while, did not concede another, unyielding together, definitely leads to disputes with intellectual controversy va.Nguoi was done the following: the human mind such words. Whatever words are sweet or bitter. Persons who are not intellectual mistake, not enthralled, for sweetness, lip, not frustrating because frankly outspoken words. The word molasses sweet lips blades, sometimes lead us to unexpected pitfalls, to place happy family shattered, the place remains ma wild relatives, and close friends list palsy paralysis, to place production part approval palsy, came to dissipate career, when death could not yawn, could not understand why! The outspoken words right, but not subtle, but often help us awaken, get rid of the attack delusion, no longer caught within pagan! When the mind is calm unmoved by the circumstances, we can do all the words, actions and control dominated his thoughts. And when the mind is chaotic, the more we talk the more angry more, do more and more and more wrong, more and think more and more unhinged. That's why, in the book: To understate the seven remaining three Remove the two to one new joy. Chu To teach: Cabinet to address the concept of spending. Secretary propagate any faith war spending . means that inside, we always, tame overcome, completion dues mind, whirring mess. Every time the concept, whirring messy start in the mind, we know immediately, leaving no follow. Everything will be quiet, peaceful benefits. Now it's called: " The pure heart . " And how is: Mind whirring thoughts? It was mind: discrimination, disputes over lost, egotistic, vain self-love, self-complacency. In general, the concept of due interest: ego and law enforcement, are deluded, whirring mess. Such knowledge, is the result of careful practice really, the Buddhists, monastic house. For the exterior, we always keep almond patience, always practice, vows to listen, no criticism, no controversy, whether big stories, small stories too. Knowing this, is a virtue, true cultivation, the Buddhists, monastic house. Those who wish may, indeed merit, should be thorough, practical teachings, Master of the Patriarchs, rather: go to the temple more damage, more damage is offering prostrations much damage, do damage many blessings, thought so, a lot of merit, merit top. Actually not all! In the book: black white lie instead crammed heaven hell any way? Online language such heart murmur. Keep meditation, how peaceful. Persons referred to his life: he was the teacher, specifically Mr. specifically She, her opening sentence Uncle, uncle aunt is Aunt Uncle, what do matter, even as " boy ", really does not matter, people with any heart, they are able to accept themselves, I do not care, peace and liberation, wild What's so angry, the right people, not the body does not like, offense nor, more tired around! people everyday saying: " The boneless tongue,, wiggles ". That is: the human tongue has no bones, so people want to say what type, how to say, how to say, depending on the case, depending on the circumstances, depending on the personality of each person. These people often said downstream reverse say, do not hold the prestige, status not keep, do not keep a promise, it is ironic: it was the sort of person, come face to swallow words, as life becomes cake! Of books sentence: " A man said horizontal, three villages did not say anything back . " That is: when a person, swaggering speech, regardless of common sense, stubborn bigotry, throughout three villages, no one bothers, nobody controversy, nobody foolish, power charge dues, fees both time, rather than losing them. Rather: three villages not argue back! Once there talk: An ignorant, not understanding the Dhamma, so always, let the criticism, detractors slandered, defamed qualify. Until the other day, thanks to all predestined, suddenly understanding, such persons repentance, regret immensely. People that think that there is only way, cut off throw away, his tongue, and to get to, redeem, so enormous, has done before. Rather lucky, when about to perform, intending to cut the tongue, he met, his brother, which is a position, enlightened teacher. The brother advised that: On the day before, so do not know, have used the tongue, defamatory Dharma, create offense karma. Now understand, all things, use the tongue, uphold Dharma, to benefit, for real people. Just a tongue, help people hurt people, depending on the temperaments, individual: People actually live with ma mind, or Buddha-mind? In the book there are questions: Why would say stabbed his breath How to find people to play with me? Or: Why exaggerating his channel style. then do not berate yourself playing it! Meaning: Because his speech is difficult to hear, said the stabbing death often called vapor, said hook throat, so no one wanted to make friends with her, no one dares to do with your body, no one dared to talk to her. Why so? Because, living in the world, where no one likes, another person was playing, delving into the private life, grub hook their lines, their ancestors, testimony of history, including on, eagle galaxy population, people know. Also, if your channel style exaggerating, snapped bluntly, not stop cursing, to face change, it is advisable honest, gentle cute, but they themselves will not, playing constantly, jubilantly newspapers, writing poetry tent lying, cursing the message sent, surely one day, one game back, death could not yawn, do not keep silent concept: Buddha bless you, save me! words sometimes have unforeseen effects are. There words can bring joy and happiness to people. There words can bring the displaced, shattered happiness of others, sometimes breaking the happiness of another person said. There are words, for the audience, smiling bright, energetic fun. There are words, the listener, frowning eyebrows, headache, aching brain, liver flipped upside intestine, heart throbbing insomnia! There are words that can save people, there are also words can hurt people, easily. Example is:'s words, conscientious lawyer, hard to find difficult to reach, noble career, can save lives, escape charges of injustice, but such attempts, verbal misrepresentation, of a witness, as for the others, have been jailed. A doctor, smart choice words, he pleaded encouraging, comforting encouragement, soothing spirit, helping patients, rest assured convalescence fleeting dangerous, soon recovered. By vice versa, words unintentionally, can make the patient agitation, severe illness, dies instantly. well as words, the diplomats, or angel, or messenger, can bring peace the two countries, or war, soldiers spreading fire, over everywhere. Many words, of a human being, greater strength, a whole army. Some people often speak sweetly to strangers outside, but for the next of kin, the family, no words are ever so sweet. Humans usually, not fancy each other, each rasp, just because words, even close friends, or between spouses, parents and children. But when, a misfortune, unfortunately passed away, others narrative, lengthy texts, and wept bitterly, saying earnestly, kill da longing, regret though, is too late! There are strange things, in this world, it is this: people usually can talk sweet cute with lying down, resting only estate to listen, not to answer, arguing anymore, or talk for hours everyday, with a grave, cemetery outside. But when that person alive out of money, people can not, uttering, for words, for easy listening damages, for damages cute! Why so? Probably because people usually do not, scared the living, but fearful people, dead returned, strangle us? can people, love animals, dogs cats birds mouse, to insects, but really when, intolerable, and could not, those around him, his parents and brother, wife and children, near and far friends, neighbors, just because of one thing: their words. Why so? Because animals, did not know listening, not speaking person, so no man is indebted to us! The life says: Two chickens hate each other, just as the crowing. Two dogs hate each other, just as barking. The two singers, each commercial ever! There tale of two birds as follows: One day, owl socks, preparing to move the nest, moved to another place. Pigeons, show that asks: Did she or regulations, clearing organizations go? Cu wife to meet that man here, egregious evil, everyone just saw me, parked where they threw rocks, trees or get beat. I can not stand, the group moved away, over in the west, the hope that, gentle people, not like here. Pigeons then said: In the neighbor's place, this long friendship, said she heard the damage, do not anger me. If you do not fix the hum creepy, strident, harsh truth is, no matter where you come, and degrading treatment! At the origin of different ethnicities living together. One can not understand what other people say, because the language barrier, but one can guess what other people want to say, through the countenance, speech and voice. So countenance, to speak our voice and also plays an important role in the communication, or daily contact. Quiet voice, delicate politely, gently sweet, gentle countenance, cute love, photography for the heart, rather than voice, loud noise loud, hollow barrier fence, sour lemon tart star fruit, difficult to hear high-pitched, his face KE, gesticulate. Gentle words, gentle elegance, intimate honesty, uprightness clear, lucid smart, open-minded fun, very easy, touched hearts, can guide, people on the right path. In the book: Birds singing voice Serenity wisdom. wise person speaks softly catchy. When practicing generosity, and we should practice loving kindness. That is: As for something, anything to help, we should do, with all my heart, compassion equality, and use words, gentleness, consoling advice, encouragement. We understand that people should thank the recipient, but the recipient does not seek grateful. Why so? Because, thanks to the receiver, the new opportunities for doing good. Understanding this, we practice giving a pure, non-profit needs, regardless expecting anything in return, regardless of grace, in books called " alms three-la-bile ". In the book there is a saying: when no packages pads when hungry. 's hair while silk over thousands of identical meaning . Thanksgiving which means thousands of identical, because nothing says loving words, to bring a piece of that. In other words, created from grace give way, and, when the words, but not entirely because of give. It also has a saying: " The way for more of the "it's so mean. Degrees and vice versa, with the heart man seeking alms in return, or expected to press thanks, or constantly talk of Thanks that was done, with many others, that person will surely get from the cruel government guys thanks expectancy. And doing good work so lost meaning and beauty. Blessings if any, is very limited, as the narrow center, the benefactor. The ironic life, so called: Giving three screaming, or: Giving la three villages. That is, that the alms money, or bringing wealth to others, and shout for all three villages, village or hamlet on the bottom, between neighbors, all know. Sometimes not saying anything clever, while alms, instead of being grateful, on the contrary, people animosity, without knowing it! In many cases, it happens, even in families, between relatives, even spouses, parents and children, or brothers and sisters! During the family, if not sympathy, couple conflict, only for words, none of fasting, so for outsiders invited to a feast, banquet small party, had the opportunity to talk, small talk is large enough, under the sun, really a waste of time, perhaps for good, cultivation of virtue. There are words, in the Last Supper, afterthought, extremely harmful, hazardous incalculable! book with the sentence: " Most sign language production, quarter-nan access code ". That is a word, the four horses difficulty catching up. There is a slight speech entitled feather, with heavy words leaned mountains. There are words like that, but really is not. Amendment speech, voice modification, amendment saying, which is that we have modified the nature center, reducing the export industry. practice is "loving" ie growth Buddhist center, ie petal is compassion. Practice is "loving" the attention that is clean ma, such as: heart of greed, hatred or ill will, envy, heart, jealousy, jealousy, dislike attention, jealousy, loss of mind, heart conceit, disdainful heart, mind your compliment. Practice is "loving" means practicing the virtues of German modern compassionate Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva, range being silent sufferings. Beings often suffer because of other words. So practice the " love language "ie bring peace and happiness to everyone around us, bringing nectar of the purity of the German average Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva, the heart is sprinkled on brain temperature, poured ear the sound gentleness, whose functions are transformed humans sorrow, the sorrow soul is suffering, the people of joys and happiness soul. All things happiness in life starts with our own words. We start all the things. We were born of the will of the students. We are peaceful liberation peaceful life. Do not expect others say easy listening, while themselves do not have such vay.Tay the sentence: "Nothing Will change if we do not change anything . " Parents, usually loving, gentle kindness sweet, cute, for ease of understanding, along with their children. But sometimes, parents have used, the words tough, rigorous prohibited, no cover, so that counsel, should the child. Thus there is also another type of loving, compassionate done Bodhisattvas. In other words, people do not have compassion and love, is not to be " loving "it. Practice the "loving" word that is used to comfort, reassure the anxious soul with fear. It is unfortunate fearless pilot of Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva. Want Bodhisattva Avalokitesvara sufferings, we must first comply with his vow. Not just begging prayers where that is contentment! We love to hear the words, so he just said, that's word, for other people to hear.









































* 2) Now, we learn words through the Eightfold Path. Eightfold Path is the path leading to the site being enlightened and liberated, including eight true, namely: right understanding, right thought, right speech, right action, right livelihood, Right effort, mindfulness, and concentration. Let us examine past: What is right speech? Right speech is the word righteousness, with Dharma, has practical benefits, bring peace and happiness to everyone, peace for all places. Right speech is the word of truth and wisdom, righteousness and equality of status and reasonable, amiable and clearly, simplicity and simplicity, and the most recommended such attacks.
During Agama Sutras, the Buddha had taught : Tam Nhut Export As. That is: Mind your thoughts, your mouth says. Other non-export center. Mouth would say good, think good attention. Thus, new peace, new religious right is the director. In contrast, the mind thinks one hand, say a mile of the mouth, mouth to say so, do not mind that, despite public appearances, as well as the xao.Hoac only worse, it's just people:
Male model mouth speaks.
During heart contains both a dagger affair.

Either more dangerous, it's the class:
Appearance Respondent was laughing.
surface of unwavering sinister murder
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In the book there is a saying: " Please bend the tongue seven times before speaking ". Tongue twisters to seven times, from say always. At that time called " enlightenment ". Because: " Speech Act Theory hooligan ". Or: " Language Languages ​​Act Section ". That is: Path of the sublime, which is not to say, no words, to express both. When he speaks, only the means and guidance only. So anyone, want to be is direct, words do not accept, do not accept texts. For example, yes, the finger, so that only the moon, for others to see. Fingers only: means only. New Moon is: glass research purposes. Seeing the moon, called the find direction, or is directed. So anyone, want to see the moon, do not accept finger, are something that, like that other world. In the book: Tri assume any language. Assume any intellectual discourse. know him say. The speaker does not know. Ie: The director has said, in books called " enlightened people ", often as little to say, or not say. The director does not know, or, more often, sometimes talking nonsense, so indisposed, disaster prone, prone to negativity, easy to create misery! In the Dhammapada, the Buddha has taught: Whether says thousands words useless, not by just saying a word Dharma right, benefit make people listen to calming the mind. Who will be able, " loving "as such, that is, the person, is moving on the road, the enlightened escape. Release from, rebirth, and release from, suffering afflictions. There are Zen masters, religious enlightenment feet, high reputation, a lot of people, near and far, respectable respect. These praises, handed to the ear, he said: Really? Some people hated him, put things defamatory, encounter accidents because someone, falsely accused, he was liberated, relaxed calm, someone asked him, just hearing response, two languages: Why ? In the book: Words do not lose money buying Choose the word that comes to pleasing each other. During the life of this world, if everyone always memorize and practice the above, happy life that is How many, beautiful life know how much. Oil is industrious and headache tablets only be used when the sun wind left alone! By doing so, families, spouses of children, under the agreement on peace, security and happiness, no controversy, no scraping. Doing so, in the social order and security, ensuring always, argumentative, leading to scrimmage, grisly murders, can not happen. Doing so, in the country, certainly peaceful, long-term sustainability. Another words, the audience happy, smile bright, calm mind, which is the chief speaker. Degrees and vice versa, words, underhanded, or wrong speech, which is speech, not righteousness, reverse irrational pride, prejudice life, and honor him. A word spoken, the listener, minds aching throbbing heart, mind reeling, non-beat soul canopy, sometimes faint, it's words: diabolical deep poison, curse nagging, scolding vulgar rails against. In many cases, even in the family, or in society, everywhere, words simple, very easy to misunderstand, or angry person, only grief alone, useless! During the Flower Adornment Sutra, The Buddha taught: Do not talk nonsense. Must preserve speech. speech must be genuine, right time, right Dharma, for the benefit of his . Yet in life, a lot of people, just know each other verbally, sow grief, for many others , said the wind shadow said, speaking skewer pierced said, speaking to hate, say provocative, insulting defamed, unknown life, never said, at any time, no matter right or wrong, yet he opened not his mouth : apologize, speak thanks! Words derived from the human mind. Human mind, change change, depending on the circumstances. So words, change as well. Mind-friendly gentle words. Mind nasty evil. In the book: Heart sad scenes are fun stars. Interested in an always safe though plight . During Buddhist world of home including: monitoring, directing, sex, hope, and wine. About a fourth of the world speech. About this advise Buddhists in part true, not saying anything to harm his interests, called the expected term or wrong speech, whether he is a relative or an enemy. About this advise Buddhists in part true, use your words to gain the benefit, known as primary language, whether that person is a relative or an enemy. Why so? Because first of all, the word used to harm others, his own mind, sure movements, making sophisticated, cultivation of virtue, long since, come to naught. Trading of call: Import is now! Another words, giving breakup, family happiness, of others, making everyone, mutual suspicion, which is saying, dim unknown, put it further down, instead of changing black and white, stir water lakes, splendid imitation of the feet, had to say no, say yes, because our minds are. Many say intentionally harm people who have not been hurt, I was coo full, immediate consequences. In the book: he sticks to beat back he rushed straight sticks she had hit her again. many more he her old age, far from land near the sun, die tomorrow live today, still creates verbal, sucking the blood spray, grub about community, agitation east side, west side story for, specialized stab paddy, rice was enjoyed poking, teasing people, I do not recall the words: " Shut the spray of blood, before his dirty mouth . " There are a lot of people, say encouraging minister, user immoral for conditions other, hate each other enemies, suffering affliction, the stupid questions bay.Sach have a saying: " The words uttered, one pin in stomach ". That is: Words gush missed it, can not be regained. There are many people, hearing the word, lived to labor, carrying death! Food terrible! However, everyone knows that weighs more clips inside not just throw on nocturnal sleep in peace . Such is legal subjects according to " well-Drain ", a quartet of Buddhist immeasurable, including: love, compassion, sympathetic joy and discharge. The right speech is keeping honest people honest word, righteous righteousness, righteousness benefit. The preservation of the conservative right speech is verbal, verbal caution, never spoke untrue, do not say bias, not to say distorted, not framed, he does not scare threats, not Change white instead of black, embroidered not add up. The preservation of right speech is not lying, do not speak ill of others, do not like to say bad lie, and do not believe the defamatory lies. Any person or lying, slander others, the consequences would not trust anyone, no one wants to hear it. In the book: any word to hear it im By not listening, not stapled inside . doing so, re healthy life. Otherwise thus depressing hardships, sufferings and afflictions, such replica tired, inhaling and puffing, like cow towing, useless! chief's language: words that, great things of small, of no small thing, not a bad one, all peaceful, joyful liberation. And as wrong speech, language and evil, as the words, blow the issue out, bring-filled warehouse, anger, hatred, anger annoyance, suffering body pain, you suffer the pain! A word to say, which makes others, bringing art to the body, which is saying, falsely accused, framed, do not know the grief, hurt Virtue, for compensation, some three million silver. Virtue is real, very evil person! One word out, making others ignorant mistake, it's words: not true, there is no straight, flattering bias, distort sophistry, shiny polished, benefiting purposes. Another words, the cause of others, hatred of conflict, litigation sparse posts, which is saying, a lie a lie, divisive, like stab paddy, rice was poking pleasure, many disasters, and all things. Those who self-love, hard to resist, when words, unwanted dissonance, not according to their agreement, often controversial, with pen in mouth, or by letter fall, sent everywhere, for everyone to know. In the Catholic Di Buddha taught: Do not care about the world. should not be spreading rumors. Westerners as follows: " You concern yourselves with shouldnt worldly affairs, nor yet Rumours Circulate ". Why so? Because, of worldly things, often things, non-market goodness falls, harassment of right and wrong, disputes over lost. These types of rumors, often unfounded, no authentication, no credible, verifiable hard, only to do harm, the reputation of others. Worldly things, all kinds of rumors and altogether making, the human mind, insecurity oscillations, only harmful, useless, taken proclaim! We do not need, wasting time, in vain, to get correct, rumors, totally misleading, if such circumstances, not required, to clarify. The bad guys mouth, bad mouth people, trying to have fun, to see our insecurities frustrating, because the words, their intentional. That is the thing, that they desire. If we are calm, relaxed, no story, nothing happened, slander words, will progressively disappear, go into oblivion. We should, for all time, minding focus, cultivation of virtue, until it was: enlightenment. In this life, there are things that do not have any proper answer, no solution yet satisfactory, do not have any advice exactly, absolutely. At that time, silent listener, nonjudgmental attention, not controversial, right-first policy, so as gold. So there is a saying: " Speech is silver. Silence is golden ". The words at the right time, actually be beneficial, the story was difficult. Hold it hold it, keep silent, make peace, it is even harder. When a person uttered words up, others guessed understand, in mind what he wants to think. Due to this factor, the fortuneteller he, the hexagram Xu, predicting the future, fortune or chance, of some bad luck, though blind fortune teller, based on experience, based on psychology, through words, 's customers have said. In the book: Nobody fun inside the turbid Going to see what HANDLING hexagram . During the family, when there are so many, words need to husband, sympathize with each other, parents and children, mutual understanding, to brothers and sisters, living together in harmony. But there are many people, young and small, high narcissism, self important, not to speak, keep silence, coldly, making life in the family, severe shortness of breath, insecurity frustrating. Suffering afflictions, starting from there. In fact, many times, the silence, it is necessary. But there are times, more words needed. Say a word, empathy sympathy, no sorrow, sorrow, why not say? The public, too, nobody perfection, always right, no slip, why accept, another user? That's why, with the books: Dharma Speaking strictly true Dharma Silence. should we know: Those who achieve " a state of no mind ", meaning that in mind, no one thought arises, ie inside, no thinking mind, whirring mess, do not say outside, silent compassion. No one can, capable, predictable in mind, what he wants, or are thinking! Why so? Because: The Infinite Mind It! Food is simple! In the book there is a saying: Those who achieve heartless. peaceful life not mind annoying consequences. During Economic Security Forum, the Sixth Patriarch Hui Neng taught: increased affinity any interest. School fees Crouching close properly. That is: The story, commercial traders hate hate, do not worry please, no bother, we're going to lie, stretch their legs, which police sleep, tossing and turning from the right, rolled upside down again, struggling back python , penetrating crop years, is counting through the night, from one to thousands! Re healthy, healthy ru! Also in Business Security Forum, the Sixth Patriarch Hui Neng taught: Weak lower corresponding language. Buddha means immediate public comment. Weak real estate, respectively. Association Attorney spiritual joy. Meaning: If the verbal harmony. Buddha means the table together. If such harmony. Accept your hands happy. speech often implied subtext, intensive attention, the magical, sometimes right speech, wrong speech sometimes. If true, words are not in harmony, dissenting, arguing that we should not. Why so? Because, also in Business Security Forum, the Sixth Patriarch Hui Neng taught countless Try to avoid duty cardboard. Avoid direct attention away loss. Tong is not competitive capital. Controversy loss of direction. want to see the leading man, ie wish life was happiness, be less concerned about controversy, let's talk about something non-market down! How much less, this much happiness! Stock teach multiplication: Listen to the words critics decry that anger, that is ignited denigrate others. Hearing words that praise praise rejoice, ie one prey to flattery. Who knows how said was to sow thoughts and experiences. And who knows how to listen to the people who collected treasures. There are words, very noble, very effective, deep meaning, the birth record, in a book called "List of Languages", or Clear Ideas, Sayings, Flowers Fragrance Co Strange. In contrast also, the words out, who lives detractors called Ranh Language. In the book: One Hundred Years of well worn gravestone. millennium mouth beer remains impassive. Either: " Tiger dies for leather. known person to die . " This proves, human speech, real consequences, it is difficult to measure! Human intellectual development, meditation, in silence. As for personality, as a person, grow in, a storm, challenging adversity, ups and downs, humiliation honor is lost, the stamina, praise criticism. In the book called it " bowl style ". In the Dhammapada, the Buddha has taught: As solid mountain. During a storm. Persons as such location. compliment calm before cooking.



























































* 3) In the French Quarter Medicine Buddha taught: " That Real Health Care Language ". Means that we should only care about the meaning, language should not accept, do not accept verbal or article, do not mean anything. In doing so, we remove much negativity suffering in this world. There are actually meaningless words, but also can make other people upset, angry, insecure. For example, there are people who say such stupid cow that fabricated teaching life. For example, say you copy someone else's post, and to his name as the author. If the acquisition of the sentence in his mind, and being angry disturbing, indeed we are not so clever. The kind of words such unfounded in anywhere, we put our minds to do for tired anger. In fact, meaningless words, because I'm not stupid, because I'm not a cow, because I did not copy anyone else's post, so no need to pay attention to the words as such.
example someone, ask us: Why this walk, he or she, being discredited, so egregious? Questions that do not make sense, just aim, provoked only. We hear it, they only do not mind, can be ignored, as not to hear, because if you understand, intimately: how is "non-self ", no "ego ", should not acquire, such words, in mind. Understanding this, do that, we are no longer, frustrated, suffering afflictions. Or more humbly, calmly replied: We did not, in any credibility to lose anyway! Or are there people criticize us, often impatient, we immediately, immediate response, voiced main argument, indeed it was, say no wrong, but what else! Even with people, writing articles criticizing, disparaging criticism slandering unlawful to insult, slander insults, provocative insult, defame capped, placed fiction story, but we have only: "means any health care language ", they can not offend touching, disturbing causes, create suffering for us.
intentionally People, put fire to burn, I do not respond, do not put the body and mind, to overpaid, they just burned, "nothing" only, there's nothing, to us all. Cussing long time, no see pressed coffee, no effect, no move toward us, they also depressed, feeling a little loss, damage public health costs, then manually stop it. And if it does, we respond, voiced controversial chief, intelligence-bar-bar-nga, said almost talking away, justify harassment, the clear right and wrong, just like that, blow air into the fire, which broke out add up, breathed relay, causing further inspiration, creating the pretext, for they do next, asking afflictions, suffering only. Buddha at that time, met the Gentiles, go stalkers, but still calmly, take deliberate steps, as there is no story, nothing happens. When he saw the Buddha, continue to remain silent, he stopped to ask: Hey you dare, have resigned yet? At that time the Buddha said shelves gently: The more, the more resentment. Losers do not sleep alone. than losing them discharged. been peaceful sleep. again even more, our minds always imagined, for should cause, suffer afflictions. Another words, the interpretation of any type, depending on the listener interested. Some people say, a real question is: no-reward-no-penalty, no-attention-wheel quad, not implying anything, we imagine, more inference to draw more solid foot, then asking for , angry frustration, suffering afflictions. This happened, in every life, of family, everywhere, very often. During the conversation, discussing controversial, likely indisposed, just because the saying, of a person, plus the mind, imagination, of the others. If the family, the wife or the husband, saying a single word, are to be understood in terms of good, not evil fantasy aspects, family life certainly happy. Easy to take a little bit, a little sympathy, a little forgiveness, life certainly, healthy fun, a little more! When we say good for someone, that person will try to preserve so good. The aspects that will promote good, bad aspects removed. Such as: parental nagging, scolding rails against children, but never open verbal praise, never, say good children, even when, to bring the vices, of their children, talking with people outside, in front of the children. The effects of education, would be negative! There are good stories for parents brooded following: There is a monk, living in the monastery, waiting in the dark, often climbing wall, go out and play. Abbot, said the work was, but said nothing. The other day after, go back to playing, novices climbing wall, go inside, because it's dark, no oil lamp, arrived at the beginning, of the teacher, rather than a chair, used to climb the wall, to play outside. That the teacher, did not say a word, fine rebuked blame, also kindly advised: I go to sleep, and it was late! From then on, novice determination, wholeheartedly, dedicated and devoted wholehearted take effort, practice diligently. Later became a Zen master famous everywhere, helps direct the life, many benefits. Therefore, the book: Forgiveness is relaxed. The achievement relaxed. , the serene achievement. Serenity is disengaged. Having so much when people say finished, harsh words, make yourself uncomfortable, day to day, month to month, year to year, while people say, forget take a long time, but they themselves will star, always remember, temperate repeated, tormented ears, children spouses. Thus, if we do not accept the nonsense, the sentence article, comes from hatred, jealousy envy, jealousy over losing, we certainly will not heart throbbing headache, needless to medication, did not need anointing, meaning we do not sorrow and suffering. For example, when: let's go, meet up for a party, host the package, bringing the donation, we do not realize, that natural host, holding back a gift. Just the same, the life giving, praise criticism, lips, we do not realize, that there will be: delicious slumber, peace and happiness. In the book: Spirit export it caused flesh. Whoever said the body art tormented. Either: Randomly strained leg to stand on. Missed mouth cause graphics to recompense it. Either: Water pouring crescendo rather difficult. speaking and remorse or not at all. During everyday life experiences, few people regret quiet. But many people say much regret, and said the words. In any family, couple unanimity, cultivation of virtue, if the husband or wife, saying harsh words, the other person happy: Talking to go down slightly, down 50% bared, so get over it? The wife or husband, heard immediately province, a wide grin. So everything, everything in peace, happy healthy, happy family, definitely not comfortable! Such families, from fortune tellers considered, out to lawyers, from doctor visits, face not like monkeys, breezy soul, serene carefree, joyful day! Inside contains too many words, is often difficult to hear, so hard to digest, our hearts will be restless, days of appetite, restless sleep the night, first getting into fall, really a disaster, unhappy life. If we understand the words of others, good aspect, surely life will have more fun. As family members, spouses of children, to say a word, are people, as you well understand, fun to receive, surely the family, always happy, no controversy, from right to pray, from need to beg, god bless. Those who are carrying, pink glasses, will find life, playful pink, bright in the morning. By vice versa, who was wearing, black glasses, will find life, gloomy dark, seeing someone, and thought it was a ghost, black with black punched! Regress happiness, suffering afflictions, such beginning! In the book, the story is as follows: WARNING primary followed, mostly monks, were both away, on the road to the village. Sight, the farmer, working hard, the ox plows, extremely hard, many insects, are cutting plowshares, buckling dread of pain, all over the field, novice Development Center, modern compassionate, merciful beings, he exclaimed: I resolve to practice, until the enlightenment, to take advantage of all beings. Monk praised: The Bodhisattva mind just released, so please go ahead, so he went back, I do not go fast, I did not catch. Going a stage further, feeling tired, went novices coal: Cultivation is suffering loss results! No practice is probably more happy! Monk said: The rotten interior Bodhisattva mind, let's go back, so he goes ahead! That is: Speak up about how much, to reveal much about her own mind up! Simple as that! words in texts such as " uneducated "," nowhere close ", has a very deep meaning. The cultivation of virtue want to look classic and learn to apply in daily life. So far no attainment, no more school, called uneducated level, ie that this bodhisattva. As the word itself means damaged body of all those elements we assume temporarily, frivolous claims, not actual, temporary, changes over time until decay and loss, return to dust. In the outer world, and the words, but other means, be mean and negative, often used to disparage others. On life a lot of people like miraculous powers, rather like the cultivation of virtue. For example, they prefer to be natural disasters and atrial label information. That is thousands of miles away from the eyes to see, ears to hear how frequently painted walls. Such people, if achieved miracles, surely infinite suffering. Why so? Because behind those words, those words back wall, the words in distant places, often difficult to hear the words, heavy bullock car, do not dare say in front, the words come from the heart ma, not Buddha-mind, such as: jealousy envy, rather than lose heart harassment, anger, greed Center delusion. Books have a saying: " The word spread near. language data remote station ". When you hear words like that, because no known cultivation of virtue, surely people will start interested angry, insecure lives, for the troubles began suffering ensued, by ma mind her own, making her the wrong response, as opposed to what was heard, caused by natural atrial communication! So therefore, Buddhism advocates: nursing practice and nature center, stop now and move now, life transformation, disturbing turn suffering into happiness. In Buddhism, it does not matter what miraculous powers, no matter how stone statues crying, dead or not, no matter what picture tearing, damage or not, no matter what the gods on the walls, in the cloud , on the tops of the trees, on rooftops, on the field, in mosques, in shrines, damage or not. Why so? Because, the idea that things are not miracles, not bring anything useful, for the cultivation of virtue, not happily bring any benefit, to anyone. Someone just know, care about, god miraculous, divine mystery, vague dream lake, begging prayer, ie, the touch on heresy, under pagan, not Dharma, Buddhism's true, though the person is: tu Fellow at the temple, Buddhist home! Moreover, we should note that the common man, working reconsider canonized deified, for many others, died before, so do not hold it, their lives should be sacrificed. For then, also human, divine prayer, back to help, bless the maintenance, preservation protection, his own body and life, and his soul! Food is vicious! Food is all around! Food is innocent! As people are dreaming, wake up yet! END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=THE EIGHTFOLD PATH.NAM MO SAKYA MUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.4/8/2014.

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