LOOKING BACK ON THE HABIT.

GN-Less expect demand will naturally remove resist, or take it down ...

When he saw the sparkle of kỳdiệu stars, can we not also like to look at the pool of a murky, even one not seen that scary dark coves, which are the background to have stars to appear and shine.

The instinct of self-defense?

Already many times I wonder why I did not like him, but it's hard too, don't like, don't like and not explain clearly the place to be. It looks like it belongs to the natural emotions, should not be able to use the standards of reason to appraise or pressed uổng. Even that didn't like and then, how treated like nothing happened, Jove, stifling nearly died. To eject, eject not then have to manually make policy that goes, that avoid, must avoid, avoid sweet look to burning Burns then new then we breathe. That if, has tried to avoid, and then still not be avoided, has tried to sort, and then still not be right, then we "ruffled up", creating borders impregnable to "defend itself", though only in the mind. In General, one must do something to not suffer losses, or feel, not bịmất cool, though just sit near each other.

Where is private affair we have such attitudes. Even the items on display, when love and the order we see it displaces in a futile, must immediately find someone to Guo or throw trash their eyes. Write a few wrong words is to tear up the paper, because the book includes stain erase, then look not nice. 2006 hửng exhortation about branded shirt, new dry by air through there once that it was ugly back Crouch could not thought, discouraged, we successively attempt it in certain corners to recite the eye, help, help bothered. A few pictures taken back in school offers to hide out, burned out, not wanting to let anyone see the dairy form in contrast to fit our model now. Very strange, something we all liked and then cannot see it nhưbình often and to quiet it is, to exclude the news.

"Do not like" the multitude, sitting here ever since they do not know where to give. Seems to always be, availability, not from the ta come out then also from the other offers. For example, each sitting at the dinner table that shows float melon soup bowl is like what healthy food shortages, spewing conservative that stars for bringing the bitter nghét that "torture" him nostalgic. Most frustrating is that while eating that keep getting check nodes or exceptionable, responsible for star himself likes to eat a delicious, medium-sized comfort, though somewhat free. There are many stories saying that supposedly petty himself, why they keep like his spend, while they also made a lot of money and also spending a to. Every time you find the mistakes his red envelope is himself and Penguin takes instant fun, HA, his own age with whom he or she copy proofing. It is said the family is the place to stand, this is not true for oneself. Home-heavy show, bored.

In fact, friends outside playing together bit only, rather than close or attached is not easy; also thanks to vảthì do not have hope, who is also its seats. Hate most is some hypocritical game, invariably they also bravado in favor of Flex, so that new talks to touch himself craving there is slight flip calm immediately. But, who would have made us lose faith then don't be attempting to do with him anymore, well not always accepted. It is not difficult, for example through the US does not want to hurt oan uổng once more. Ignore it, but the schedule is not forgotten. Although we see that person has really repent and change, but each time thinking of old stories is still very sharp, yet nguôiđược.

Also users with users from talking, eating lost another chan chat. When the same suddenly crossed the without notice, what one also toss in a few sentences in exchange for verbal hate, that gas, Chase ... domestic servant. Wait'd half-derivative is bringing out the delicacies, which names the attendant mind where to listen to the wrong items, there is no flower which float rather than, and we did not miss the opportunity to turn the Authority's voice of "God" out ... commandments prompt. Most boring meetings periodically, each time hear the Clarion voice of teaching elders are hot flashes at all, several times to write a letter submitted to the Board of lãnhđạo but the fear of aging foe, so come on, put cotton wool in the ear hole to complete the story. Same guy dare to bring his personal life story to the newspaper, the left still more latest đơm, believes she does not dare initiative story of guy well, without, to sue, sue for the guy knew how to behave ...

A few stories where worth so it was easier to carry, head aches, makes it takes eating insomnia, major stories Lake case is related to the rise of civil society. That said, in fact, "not her," though to where, though makes it crazy weather up, blood boiling hero worshippers, but then we quickly forget (shalt not remember?). For example, the story of movies. Not understand why now people just love to turn kids into spooky characters, lost humanity, murder is not formidable. The Director, the producers, the censor has put up what they must also benefit the children out, * provided * pure mind left in this life. Also in the House, want to attract advertising that despite stuffed into the millions of spectators some poisonous stuff. So the entertainment. Map only. Don't watch anymore. But so strong, there's something else to watch now?!

No love is expressed right attitude don't like, protests, resisted fiercely, is that natural instinct? Does anyone do so? There is also always happy with his reaction is not, has never been mistaken? There really be seeing other guys hurt because "hit the Attorney General"?

Fight back what hazardous to life, the right of self-defence instinct is every creature, is important and necessary. But people because there is so much to protect, from body to soul, from honour to material, from necessities to surplus, should react to resist being "refined" the smart and sophisticated drawing. Perhaps so that human life rolling chain link chỉlà of the response: discomfort, upset, angry hờn, complaints, accusations, verbal abuse, threats, attacks ... People also believe that after death, will turn into ghosts are powerhouses, spoiled venting off resentment lênđầu enemies (?).

Such gaps between two response to resist is what, how long, and I have lived in about openings that are not, or to find the fun or intersting passion that inserted to help with chới? By thểnào not sure was enjoying life while submerged in the late troubles, or drifting giạt according to the line of mesmerizing feelings of man. We live to do, to live the new life is indexed? This question needs to be answered for by the nỗlực discovery of ourselves right now, or is it still more important things need attention and resolve?

Why is "love" to resist?

If after each response to resist, from small talk to big stories, we see a peaceful heart and a happier, feeling great and exist forever, then it is worth to put energy into fighting, strong style was mostly lost to the King. But because we are human beings, want to rise to the higher value and more firmly, so, we need to re-examine the action instinctively, creating fatigue and crashes, that by unknowingly or unintentionally was into a routine, lifestyle, or as his vessels.

The life is a collection of things like Italy and like Italy, however, we only accept things like that and be willing to exclude those things real. If one is the more talented, early success, power, is highly regarded by many, what I "want what are bear" as phìnhđại. While, all things all things on this world operates according to its natural principles, not followed by anyone at all. So there are things like that one, but any other guys like that, and there is no such thing as the other guys but no one like that.

That, perceptions and feelings we also swings: there are things we have ever loved but now back to the others, or have things before we hated but now leave me drunk. Probably, the practice to accept these things as out of control as much as possible, then we leave or fight cựquyết. Attitude of ignorance is the cause of suffering, rather than this life which was suffering.

We see, who suffers through the đủloại downs, praises the humiliation, usually have the ability to accept higher uncertainties situations these new guys step into life. Even, they also found that the circumstances left inverse is the key material for forging trui more will and resiliency, helping them afford the lofty goal, instead of resisting cựthì them again sought to embrace the fun without than resentment.

Accept temporary discomfort in exchange for touch acutely, the lack of experience is not able to get out and do. Most young people often mired in misery, because they constantly seek the sense of Rapture was shallow and jump up every time to encounter that contrasted. Worry, doubt and fear that just because lack of experience bad, rather than always response is needed.

When the discovery of anti-gai pits along the way, of course, one must throw to one side. No one advised him to bite the teeth stay off every thing contrasted on lifetime, be avoided to avoid. But certainly we can't avoid everything by invisible anti-gai is always the unexpected or do other guys to toss that one cannot see and Dodge. So, instead of avoiding or eliminating all life's anti-gai, the best way is to let yourself a real good shoes to go on every anti-gai.

The shoes he is perseverance, stamina, Germany needs peace and courage. Anyone can shop for her giàyấy double, not hard. But without looking back at the reality itself to support and correct the shortcomings and weaknesses, and where capability out to ta đốiđầu with all difficulties? Economic development back to the level of enjoyment of man up towering widely admired, able to endure the bad feelings thus became increasingly poor. Pragmatic, liberal lifestyle, as well as the reasons prompting people to more aggressive and impulsive. The lack of internal strength, certainly, would be significant and require outside, "like" excess shedding, punishment object and try to change the circumstances.

When not understand yourself then surely will not understand the other guys. Intelligence, sensitivity, experience the experience ... it is not sufficient to understand the soul of a man. Even with ourselves, too, sometimes, to abandon the wisdom and dexterity, to quiet the soul and clear waters, to discover and understand the new developments. Guys don't know look back at themselves also often is the lack of listening to others. Hurt someone without known the profound desire or belief their pain suffering, we just follow his ways, then it is only superficial compassion stuff, or just because there needs to be an object to satisfy the emotions of love only.

So, all the backlash against emotional in as angry hờn, jealousy, blame, demanding, boring, despised ... come from lack of attitude and lack of energy. In the love that I still haven't cracked out, hot double, to contain the differences or the weakness of the other guys, even using objects đểnuôi loving big ego, then of course love will turn into jail.

There are hundreds of reasons that make up react against each individual, these reasons on the considered the "disease" of all the people. People want to value peace and lasting happiness, should have take care to explore and comprehend the mysteries of the heart and natural principles of life, then work back towards the physical development and honor to seek the sense of Rapture for the time, and then the momentum and mistaking it as the purpose of life. Can say, wrong perception that clue born expecting attitude and fight-two basic causes to create any troubles and miseries in life.

Whence the need to resist

Whenever you get stuck, we often lament their fate back in black and silver over how other guys. Calm and looked carefully back away, nothing very special, can not claim that sufferings would outweigh any suffering, because the feel and the space where the soul each each other. Sometimes, "the rich off hand by beggary pour gut". So, the first thing that we need stanzas, it is adversity, which is often, it comes and then it will go. The problem is that we have to respond to it not create and leave the devastation.

The most essential thing is to immediately go back to yourself, find ways to help for the emotion subsides, balanced judgment and assess damage levels of difficulty is happening or will happen. Sometimes it is just routine allergy to the as, the attitude is not welcome unexpected discomfort occurs, rather than completely is a difficult circumstances. Which, though it is a difficult situation, then we also do not let sựsợ scared the classics from the place itself, or the negative energy resonances từnhững people around, making imaginative inflate and distort the truth.

Remember, that it is both sky high wide wandering, swallowed up and the other is just the wind storm. Wind storm dùđiên went to the engine not to be sky blue. Let's rehearse for their observing skills and split between the ego overall (including understanding, love, talent, virtue, etc.) and psychological phenomenon. That is not identical with the storm of emotions, not lose yourself, don't get it manipulates and controls the speech and actions to resist and to regret.

Want to do that, we have to painstakingly rehearsed habit of observing his demeanor in all situations, especially when the words outspoken comments or criticism. It is important to observe with the attitude not biased and unbiased. Do not add to this and also don't miss anything happening with emotion, don't do something opaque pure experience with images or ideas that have been stored in the mind. Then, we discovered the one left with the feeling of discomfort or pain, a temporary energy source, rather than the suffering of the ego as we imagined or ever hear how the other guys khẳngđịnh and than resentment.

Of course, it is impossible that this attitude immediately when starting to exercise, because it is often habitual and stuffed her mind crafting good template style. And, sometimes, we also disguise themselves with these words comforted balmy sweet, small talk but, have to nhò what where, but the soul again crushed noni and disruption that knowledge or not seen. Only when conscious of keeping the mind more important than keeping the scene, light the thứcđược long maintained, then we could afford to remove the traps he out each little piece.

If the decided work out whose heart did not extend out to embrace the difficult, the will also not strong mẽhơn to see here is the internship, we don't try to drastically anymore. Relax and unwind, and then will slowly come back later.

Let's focus on things such as Italy are also present around us behold. Which are the conditions of happiness, don't forget. Don't keep taking bẵm to Vung Tau to darken, will accidentally forget the presence of the stars. When seeing the magic of sparkling stars, thểta will no longer want to look at the pool of dark overcast again. It is even no longer thấyđó is scary dark coves, which are the background to have stars to appear and shine.

To which one would the ngộrằng, feeling happy for the time and true happiness are two entirely different ones. A fascinating object comes from the outside, the longer one available from sựbình yen. The peace of the soul is the termination of the expectation and resist to the ego, not more nor categories, helical accept absolute itself, seeing everything around is the substance of life, of happiness.

And that way we also sẽnhận out that the struggle for and against yourself are two very different but very easy to be confused with each other. One came from love and wisdom, and the one coming from the benefits of the ego and the emotions of frivolity. If true justice, because the general interests of the community or collective, not alternating individualism, coupled with extensive sight-no evil that only thought and action-fighting method optimization that we will select that is nonviolent. By the way this fight not being aggressive, respecting the opponent, the solving problem by reason, unspoken and hope there is a change in that not to happen the unfortunate crash. In General, it should have the metabolism rather than destroy. This is the way to fight intellectual, humanistic, as though what they also don't forget situation kind to each other.

The strange thing is that even less expected demand will naturally remove resist, or take it down, and because there are two types of positive reaction to adversity, good-bad, be-lost, the-loss ... for what I'm shallow. Returning to live with ourselves more, not happy and lives into material things senseless or erratic emotions of kẻkhác, we will no longer much reason to fight anymore. What is now a vibrant reality, mystery, harmony with everything around, always full of energy and ready to support every soul is still puzzled on the path of happiness.

Dam dam into the dark hole

Overcast half-life

She watched on as far away

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