Parenting is a difficult task. Please learn to use some basic teachings and principles of the Buddha to make parenting easier and better.
Parenting can be difficult and challenging. For fathers and mothers are not Buddhists Buddhists can apply the teachings of the Buddha to more loving, more compassionate, more aware and more loving. Not only that, children learn from example and look at the application of Buddhist teachings of parents is one of the best ways for children to learn about Buddhism. Here are some comments on the use and practice the teachings of the Buddha to life as the parents.
BUDDHIST TEACHING THE GUIDANCE compassionate
Demonstrate kindness and compassion is central to Buddhism and this also explains to parenting. Compassion means loving your children through the cheerful smile and fearsome rage. As busy mothers fathers, too much work and too tired, we really irritable and easily found yelling at the kids to swinging a rage.
However, if we, mothers fathers, just take a minute to breathe deeply, calm down and react, life with young children will be happier and easier. Sarah Napthali in Buddhism for Mothers fathers wrote, "We just need the notion of what can be expected from the conception of our children, bring compassionate in our response, rather than react automatically and without thinking. "
LEARNING HOW TO FOSTER A CHILD HOW THE CONCEPT FROM THE PRACTICE OF BUDDHISM
Mindfulness and awareness shown in the present moment is the seventh in 'Eight main road' [1] and the practice of Buddhism can be easily applied to parenting. Napthali defines mindfulness as, "what is happening at the moment it is happening." Many times, parents experiencing emotional gestures and daily habits that do not really exist here in the moment present now.
Expressing righteous, may be paying more attention to what their children are really trying to say and to beneficiaries and the fun little details in the lives of children and convey a message that the something truly worthy of love and esteem. Moreover, Napthali expressed confidence that mindfulness can make parents more intelligent and more clear perspective.
EXPRESSED AS THE PARENT patience, tolerance and understanding
Buddhist practitioners understand the importance of patience, tolerance and understanding. Every human being is a Buddha and each person must respect and acknowledge that the concept unparalleled. As a parent who, by acknowledging the individuality of children, we can truly nurture talent, dedication, and spontaneity inherent qualities of children.
Recognizing the special features unparalleled [Buddha-nature] [2] of the children is also important when dealing with competition, comparison and other common aspects of children's lives.
Manifested as fathers BUDDHIST MOTHERS LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITIES
Buddhism teaches about love and kindness shown responsibility for our own actions. Parents can easily apply this to give kids who prefer honorable and respectful and take responsibility for their behavior. By implementing good example of responsible and express love for others, parents can help their children receive this important value.
Parents do not necessarily have to become in order to use Buddhist teachings and practice simple but very useful. But parents can easily apply Buddhist teachings to parenting and with patience and effort, there are always going to find it flourishing fruit.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY =THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.1/6/2014.NAM MO SAKYA MUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).
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