n the hospitals in London - England, while preaching about the moments before dying patients, SOYAL Venerable Rinpoche noted that: "The hospital should respect the wishes of dying as well as their need to lie still and keep quiet as much as possible - "'For the moment approaching spiritual death they should be opened. So knowing that the patient could not survive it is best to remove what tuck, plug into the patient's body, such as wires, needles, gauges, conventional drug into the body so the body etc. dying is natural, serene mind .... At the same time standing by the relatives often say nice words or prayers for the loss and spiritual care for them. . . Could the departure of peace they desire.
49th day after the loss of a very important - because it is the most long-term intermediate move into a life after life (reincarnation) This phase should be no priests or parishioners or friends, opportunity to mold prayer, helping the business at ultra soul. This is the best thing to do: "(One other point is also very important after losing two weeks or about half a month, that time should recite, recite prayers for the deceased will be reborn or heavenly bliss depending on their religious path.
During that time, if two relatives virtues volunteer work with the intention of giving a new alter the death benefit is also to help them spiritually, transforming lives. . .
For Tibetans, the work of merit on behalf of the dead is a most significant work - That's the way repay, showing his love and support people have lost most or moody and not just mourn sorry nuối sorrow also to no avail. For people deceased souls ...
Those who had been beside the dying they will learn how the fear, loneliness of dying - If people feel that in addition to fear, the fear is the same fear that people are lying in bed. So that people who have been in the adjacent side so the loss would have been much better for the kindness they have experienced as well as the period of time of death it - they will look different than life and realize life clearly more people see the value of higher spiritual material. She M.Ph work at a large hospital in Colorado United States - though still very young, she is part of the comforting care of dying -. The feeling of her after nearly 6 years working in a hospital filled with unique jobs this is sad: I suddenly realize life is somewhat different from the perception of my friends as well as my siblings - I think is not jealousy, envy hate anyone because they all probably the same place the images normally next to me, I always see people full of compassion and honesty glitz attachment - the outgoing-Looks like most people are tolerant outgoing selfless .. Why do not tolerance, openness, kindness in words, actions, employment as soon as we are alive on earth.
More and more people believe in the law of cause and effect - and even science is also moving slowly on the confirmation event again, my own, I believe in the Law of Cause and Effect. . "Albert Einstein
It is important to tell friends and relatives when neighboring dying, do not Bin rin, weeping, the hook for the loss. If we just created to serve as the pang of compassion dying catastrophic grief will make them extremely difficult to close your eyes - which is extremely harmful. Just keep in mind that it's almost dying minutes, they need to be secure hearts, to release all, nothing encumbered in that critical phase.
By Christine Longaker, the best ones have to let them go peacefully - serene, natural - wanted it, to make their peace of mind, telling them that their stay was fine, nothing have to worry about, everything will be OK after they lost.
The loss is always going to be people who wish to understand their aspirations, their closeness to comfort caring, listen. Need to avoid the fear that they dare not close-Be bold and embrace their hand is not to say that suffering condolences on the contrary they say happily help rekindle the spirit. Consolation here is not to tell them that they will not die - According to Venerable Rinpoche is either silent or let them know that they are going to die - For a while for them to know the truth, they will have time to prepare been prepared ourselves to death with the courage to mature and wiser. Do not let them go when they do not know is going to lose.
One thing Venerable Rinpoche reminds people about this problem is to never preach your own teachings to his deathbed when he is not the same with your beliefs - contrary to incentive relatives rate, graciously assist them to believe in what spirit and their faith has been attached. You should try to get yourself attitude, gesture and face is not shown suffering, fear, embarrassment, anxiety or terror when their side - Since the images that will make dying for fear of insecurity, making the moment of their death becomes heavy, melancholic misery - Doing so is not beneficial for the loss that is causing disadvantage if not harm to people dying.
The Tibetan guru relatives advised at that time to create peace for the dying as follows:
If they abuse the pain is sitting near them tell their side is: try to pray that they are painful, but they also pray for those who are suffering the pain of abuse as they are.
If they are awake, then tell them to breathe in with the idea that collect on the suffering of those who experienced pain like her. Then exhale with the thought of expelling germs, the pain, the ugly, sinful body is serene.
When alive we should do so often to get familiar ...
In European and American countries, the majority of deaths often feel helpless stray, lonely - Maybe the practices of other European and American too far with Orientals so people, even relatives also less interested access to spiritual care at relatives and even dying while the body is still in the family funeral home. Just as even the doctors have not graduated are not equipped with the spiritual aspects of what - So many have encountered cases of patients dying in front of her with the desire to pray the words associated related to spirituality. But do not know about to help support lost in that moment how all ..
A female British doctors recently graduated to work in a hospital immediately encountered a puzzling case - guilty before a patient - an old man - a lonely old man - he does not have her I visited any friends at all. Seeing the old man whispered, she said: "When I die, she will think God forgive me?" The female doctor then felt awkward not knowing how to answer.
When he heard the woman tell the doctor about it, Sogyal Rinpoche Venerable said: "If that is the case, let's say the old man that God's word should always forgave him and stuff. And to be specific mind at ease, let's sincerely repent, forgive yourself for sins - if any - they have caused while alive. Besides specific forgive those who have done suffering and repentance specific error received what they had done wrong or harm them. Repentance and forgiveness are two factors that help anyone when in the dying minutes ..
According to the Tibetan Lama despite his deathbed has created many evil deeds, but at the loss, they expressed remorse, regret, repent, seek forgiveness would surely partly metabolized bad karma. Thing to note is always dying to go alone so minute farewell to relatives and friends should have died from time to feel helpless lost. So is the lone single of the most unfortunate thing about to lose.
All of us, when reading this paragraph, then we can imagine the day I also like that the desire for peace of the departed souls is what we desire.
Master Dudjom Rinpoche said: "Do not ever give up dying - dying minutes lying alone both. At their edges, draw on all his kindness to them when he was helping them secure sustainable progress in Other world without worrying fear in the moment with them into office. was the word most sincere prayers for them is extremely valuable ... "If the person is going to lose, then believe in Jesus prayer Christ for mercy and help them. If they are Buddhists pray the Amida, the Buddha Quan their salvation. Ones The prayer is that in the dying minutes, the iron death would be more assured when they feel like co.dang supreme in his side.
According to the Venerable Rinpoche: If people are going to lose a faithful Christians and Buddhists are you, when you pray, go towards Buddhism - Buddha or God will also bring compassion and kindness salvation both - nothing distinguishing. Only thing is at that moment, you do not ever preach faith give another person is going to lose faith when you cough. The renowned masters of Tibet have taught his disciples: Let the mind is always pure and peaceful - Do not let the pain, anger, resentment hate affair cling to - Let your mind join with the center of the supreme being. With her mind in the morning, will lead the world to die on the high bar, not misguided choose the wrong path in 6 realms insecurity of the 6 six paths of Reincarnation.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=TAM THANH=WHITE LOTUS FLOWER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST PRAYED MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.17/2/2014.NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).
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