HOW SHOULD THE PARENT filial.

 

Humans and animals are different in the human wisdom, filial know, that keeping a routine customs, ceremonies appreciate, ie. Not understanding the roots, do not know filial to parents, not of allegiance to the country, do not know the basic human condition, then its for horses, goats, cattle have anything else? So I have to pay attention! Especially in this era students to pay attention more and more!

Filial to parents are obedient to their parents and the parents are happy, the spirit of peace, rather than foster parents, for parents to wear nice clothes, and to have devoted and filial! Not so!

What is perfect filial? First I have heard that teaching parents, not opposed, not opposite to parents. Must be very reverently obey parents taught, at the meeting with the parents to be very "artificial flowers Online identity, "quietly, obediently. Parents said the wrong thing to do it right, do not be lazy or unhappy attitude, do not like. If I have something wrong, parents are nags, they must be very happy to receive that, do not be stubborn attitude, not receptive of advice.

In heaven, everyone will want their children to become good people, so they taught sternly. In the Kinh Tam Tu:

 

"Fathers Death no more than,

Professor Church any more serious fall. "

Means:

 

"Do not teach children the father's fault,

Teaching is tough without his fault. "

 

The ancients taught that the lower Bong taste of death! (Under the new bounds stripes trained pious son!)

That is the view of the past, is not much room at the time, particularly in this country, people in the West have never heard of. Because in America people say education is not cordial, not hurting the children, for the children to develop freely! In short, if the stern is also not good, but too loose, arbitrary, it is not good, I have to keep the new centrist reasonable.

The Chinese capital emphasis on filial piety. Sam Tang, a disciple of Confucius, has said that:

 

"Women form at any distance travel, travel all the property."

 

That is: "When are your parents still do not go far if they have no place to go no place." Meeting the parents is alive, the children should not try to go here and there, if something needed to travel to distant places, parents must know the exact address to parents from worrying . Make parents worry is not dutiful. So proverb that says: Children of disaster management to make best form. (The thousands of miles away, in the anxious mother.) It is envisioned womb children are very interested in that.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.10/9/2013.NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).