The view of love through the vision of Buddhism.

Y êu? What is its value? How much love? Love in the word Buddha is different than common sense love? In the first session we understand what love is? This is the problem we can talk even before we start to talk or write about love.
People spend a lot of words to say about love. We are writing about it, talking about it (it is the essential part of the daily vocabulary), read about it and treat it as it is very crucial in your life. We have the saying "love brings more beauty, splendor", "Love means never saying my regrets", "love makes the Earth spins" and have a motto as follows: "Make love, not war" (make love, not war).
Now we're back to the problem: "what is love?". Dictionary definition of love in many different ways it as warm, gentle, loving feeling deeply and fondly for that person or is the love wanted to close, the devoted to the person or people you love; the feeling of brotherhood and goodwill to all men, usually a warm loving feelings of passionate people with regard to others, by the appeal of sensuality and mating.
To fit we will start the discussion here about the definition of a kind of love. Love it is plain sense, gentle for other guys, want them to be happy. It is the feeling of tenderness, caring, and cuddly; love is not selfish, no expected return or not; It is highly emotional, to overcome all barriers or obstacles of religious beliefs, gender, race, country ... It extends to every species of living things on the universe, including insects, fish, animals and the formula.
Love is not the desire or emotional turning ti loves to stick closely to the person; It's unintended sensuality. It is not the satisfaction of pleasure or sex. Right so, we have to understand that between two people who love each other must have love, between the husband and the wife. In the relationship between them should be the caring, cuddly and soft. Their love may not have service. Such is the blend of the powerful appeal of pleasure or sensuality.
Love is the legal responsibility of the change, if a subject does not meet or do not meet the needs or desires with sensuality. Like this shows that love is the same, limited and subjective. We consider it to be a vile sentiment or less tall, high, not purely the selfishness and ambiguity. All of this will be that we discuss below.
Love is based on the subjective, it is also appropriate to discuss the issue of sexual humiliation of desire. The desire what is sensuality? Again the dictionary definition that it as a craving to satisfy the senses want physical, sexual desire; intense sexual greed especially as seeking the satisfaction can't manage, why not resist your desire. So, we can see that the love between two people in a certain extent of sensuality desire will not be separated, it took part in the sex associated with longing to be satisfied the sensations, and that as we know that feeling is very intense and it is tame, done blindly insurgent avid loving feelings and even now is disappointment. It can rise up the crazy weather because of jealousy, anger and frustration when the extra lover silver or when love left.
And so again, this is not the kind of love we'll discuss here, as this is love and subdued desire to achieve and satisfy. However, there is no denying the feeling cuddly, gentle, caring and love between two people who love each other, between the husband and the wife. Even they can depend, impact each other and by the charisma of sensuality. May start from a higher kind of love you, that they also may ask in understanding more about the kind of love you high over and finally appreciated and developed a kind of love that crossed all barriers or obstacles, constraints and circumstances.
So, the kind of love that we will discuss here is the love that is looking for and have fun bringing happiness to others. It is highly emotional, not selfish, always look forward to good results as what we have desires, not looking forward to reciprocate, even without the appreciated or gratitude. For love just as tolerance, love is found in the delights of seeing the joy and happiness sparked in the eyes or on another person's face (as the result of love and the share). So there is that it's a meaningful reward, causing all of us to try and it was rated as: "achievement of love". Always hoping for the other guys are all good things, the Crimson rose always welcome on their way and wish them not to suffer the hurt or pain.
So "love recipe" in the traditional e-Buddha, we desire that "all beings are all healthy and happy, avoided embarrassment and danger. Body, mind, well-being has not suffered. Wishing everyone interested, take care of each other full of happiness ".
The life of the Buddha is a classic example of the immense love and compassion. It overtakes the two virtues: Mettà (love, From) and Karunà (compassionate loving kindness, Bi), and he had to abandon the worldly life full of lavish, materialistic and pleasure that He lived to go in search of the way the rescue, put an end to all the misery. After finding a solution, He rips it to all beings, wishing they were tasting the flavor of happiness of the infinity-brain, happiness of Nirvana that they can achieve in one's life through the mind clean.
And the Buddha were enthusiastically recommends all the disciples go ahead and ban transmission of spreading the teachings of Jesus to be more nurses in order that they might as well be tasting sweet củasự freed. He himself is a great master, after the enlightenment He went Hong France tirelessly around the country of India, He preached to all social classes throughout 45 years until He entered Nirvana at the age of 80.
The Buddha encourages monks and disciples be regularly screened to radiate love kindness. He offered to let them overwhelmed and spread across the world with a loving soul which as though is: "further, spreading all over the place and timeless". Whatever the position, though, standing, sitting, lying, He also encouraged the disciples be regularly sprayed Metta, love to all beings.
In the Dhamma of the Buddha, there is a blank space for the jealous enmity or hate, even though a little bit else. The kind of love that is a love Supreme and paramount. It is not easy to love perfectly full, full, don't expect any of the rewarded. Make sure that it is extremely difficult for us to develop this love to the level achieved in clean, pure as the Buddha-love covers over all beings, it flashes to fire or bottle offers that it appeased and even be annealed by wisdom and calm.
We started to cultivate this kind of love when we practice meditation love kindness and intelligent observation Vipassana. Mettà or meditation love kindness is special weapons are effective against hot anger and enmity. And through the practice of Vipassana meditation, love and compassion can also feel đơm bud, bloom when we feel destiny fastened together that all of us that are suffering companion in samàra, or in other words we are all the same people the same boat. In the following pages we will encapsulate the problem our discussion in part the development of the Mettà. Practicing Vipassana meditation we are also mentioned in another book entitled "Welcome to Vipassana".

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