Throughout life, we always exist in the pilot, when you touch the bedrock of reality then infinity lt away exist, because when there's no longer any reason why you have to fear anymore. If there is fear, you also understand that at the moment you're bumping up to the foundation of reality. You will know and will certainly feel that. INFINITY LT DURING LOSS OF FRANCE Invisible threads time lt usually conversation and focus a lot in Buddhism. I think, other religions also have the radio of Captain but maybe they have a different view. However, in terms of philosophy and wisdom, life through common understanding about infinity lt and developing voter opinion to look upon life sincerely, then all that we must thoroughly it is: normal or "natural" life really is worthless Lieutenant. Infinity lt was, is and will forever exist. If you really know how to recognize life's natural state then loads lt will get you a lot more confidence. Left back right now, we are living in fear, we are being covered by these fears. We can even do not believe or do not realize that, that we are very afraid that something, that fear is always in existence dwells within us. Why is this so? By the time we also manipulated and pirate life pirate nature makes life no longer holds a distorted it. Therefore, it cannot be upheld. Once there, things become chaotic, because we are not confident in what we are doing. Ignorance makes reference to, and would like to again create fear From the perspective of Buddhism, we confirmed that the ignorance of our own has created all these illusions. Ignorance makes reference to and want to create fear. This is the idea I wanted to recommend to you and look forward to you please ponder of them. According to the Buddhist perspective, we always said that ignorance is the cause, the creation of taking part, also want is expected to urge a something, and when it appears they always carry the fear. This is understandable because the emotions as below will keep appearing: "I'm seeking something but doesn't know whether to or not. And then when it was going to be, I would not know what to do with it? ". These feelings of fear are not as yet terminated and they are always abreast with the wish. Says so, doesn't mean taking part wanted to be bad and fear is bad, because it is an integral part of life. And life needs to be "experienced" in a natural way, not manipulated, pirate. If having fun or fear appears, under any form whatsoever, just that they do not pose a stumbling block for him, then go to live with them. Of course, you have to live with them the other way, i.e., the main right and lucid. This is the framework that I wanted to mention. Even, I don't think the emotions – emotions involved wants, anger or envy, is these toxins that you need or evading enemies hate. I think they are a part of life. Life keeps taking place; You people have to adjust to your life rather than the life will never adapt to you. We always arrogant, want to manipulate, pirate and control your life, but this is impossible. Thus, life must be respected. So you have to cherish the life like? How can you have the sense to face life? This is a question full of Italy and if people are, you keep thinking of this question. Essential ignorance, starting from ego-"ego" The essential ignorance run from the ego, but ego is the ego. The concept of the I am very solidly, low-key and always exist, but in fact we do not know what I was hiding it under way. We do not know see it scientifically. In view of religion, I think nobody ever found the mine, but we each still have powerful egos. Latest issue-is the cause turbulence, which is the subject of our discussion? Yes, this is the main issue that we are discussing. Because the concept of what I bring to all kinds of emotions, not only emotionally but also common ones. I don't know the difference between more or less, but I have to say that emotion is bad, it is a part of life. However, it will become a barrier if the emotional negativity, because it brings to the suffering that we absolutely do not expect. And then, the fear factor will exist. The emotion itself is not copied because it is not dominated by the ego (ego or, if you prefer to use this word instead). Strong egos, glamour immensely and it was Prince reigns in our lives. I for example, we keep thinking: "I want this, I need people to bring her happiness, I want this, I want the other thing …" The notion of ego is actually solidly! If you don't have pictures of what are fortified me in his life, you can still have other ways to say I want this, I need the other ones … but you don't feel miserable; the wish was also there but no feelings hurt or scared. For example, I want to go to a place, but if not possible by a reason, now I will not pity or misery. This happens because I realize that the ego is not durable, although I have used the term ego and take pictures of our own egos are present, are going somewhere, are needed this stuff, other stuff …, or is there a reference to something. I have wanted to, by without taking want to then no life, and if so then we're not exist. So, when we welcome Hy lived here, in this world, then we have to have the emotion to keep living and emotion is craving. The Catechism taught that realms which we are living is exercise. So, we can not avoid the want. The wish to always present everywhere and motivates us to act: because taking part would like to so I have need for it; because tham want should I need to drink water; because taking part would like to we are here. Tonight we all here not because one wants to do that? Things on what's wrong? Whether we want to take part is wrong? No, dear nothing wrong at all. Feelings of fear comes from the terrace of wrath When the ego or the image of strong egos and affect the wish-means take part want to be manipulated by the ego, ego-involved wish will become distressed and leads us to fear. Misfortune instead, in day-to-day situations, like always being manipulated and pirate very strongly by the ego. Then, the emotions fear factor will become angry, enraged. Maybe we don't realize this, but in General that is the reason why in this world, who are also angry pitch. I could sense that everyone has a little pitch angry, maybe not a lot but a little. Although, sometimes we desperately tried to restrain, but in the us the pitch angry always available at any time, even when there is no reason to pitch in anger at all. We are very irritable, uncomfortable, pressing under the influence of anger. Terrace of wrath is truly fear, it's not anything that's just the emotion of fear. So, if someone says the words left Italy then we will feel anger and insecurity that is also essentially ... scared. This is what causes us to pitch in anger. Basically, this anger comes from ignorance and want, which involved want is ignorance. According to the Buddhist term, three kinds of feelings is the three "poison". But we have to believe, that's really not the poison that is "wisdom"; If you wish you can call by different names but actually it is intellectual. It is a part of life, in themselves they are not troubling obstacle course they inherently good, not evil. I think, instead of bring hindrances, these feelings are give you breath and life. From samsara to enlightenment, everything is based on three feelings on, they really are the foundation of our lives. Regardless of any sense, if you are really interested in the Enlightenment, if want to achieve enlightenment, you must have the emotion, it's the taking part, si. All the emotions on the existence, operation, this is very helpful and really it was the catalyst on the path of your leaders. Of course, you may not be interested in the Enlightenment, but you still pay attention to live freely and captain in this world, to live a successful way, serenity and harmony. All of the above are also dependent on three types of feelings. If do not know how to transform these feelings a, you will surely get in trouble by then the fear will go to; While probably the fear should not be present here. So what would you do if you do not want the fear? You still have to live with three kinds of feelings, but with the look and behave like? In fact, the key to which we have just discussed are don't live in delusion and don't let it govern. This means anything or not, last evening I will take the time to answer your questions. I was discussing this problem with a few people in here, but when someone ask the question, I found it very hard to understand. Because, when questioned, the first thing people usually ask about what they're thinking, I don't know how to answer, so I have to ask: "is this a question don't you?!" I have ever met so hard, especially in the UK. In some countries, people often ask the question very clearly so I find it easier to answer than that. Of course also because his English is poor so I don't understand their questions. When asked, people use the words difficult or unclear which I find somewhat confusing. This is a situation once made me afraid. So why do I feel fearful and reluctant about it? By I've created his ego very solidly, and then next to, what I created "You" very solidly and you were speaking English very complicated, that do I feel afraid. I'm talking about this case as a typical example. This is not fear or pain, but sometimes it can turn into sorrow, even prompting some people to commit suicide. This is the ultimate level of fear. This angry pitch people, so they can't take advantage of the fear, sexual desire, anger or any kind of emotion to transform into wisdom. They couldn't convert them into intelligence and use them to benefit, by the notion of ego at this very strongly and solidly. It really is the extreme anguish. It makes everything blanketed sinking and becoming very restricted. Love and wisdom must be used for subduing fear We must use the unconditional love and wisdom as Air France effectively to subduing the emotion of fear. True love radiating from within, while the intellectual available where you help you can share the love to the whole property. I don't think there is a big difference between love and wisdom. Therefore, intelligence is immediately you have to practice practice. Typically, we think of intelligence as a "format" of the mind or of consciousness, wisdom is helping others. But that's not entirely true. Yes, intellectual-pleasing the great bi can be regarded as such, but essentially the intellect is the major agency knows that the existence of the ego is not real. This is the essence of wisdom. If development understanding the ego could not govern you anymore and you will become vastly wide to chan spread to everyone. Right now, the perception of Me so strong and cover, to the point that it took away the ability of you and really does not leave space for others. Consequently, strong ego to the point that there is "I" out there who is important-the "I" is more powerful at that "I" also no longer really exist anymore ... Even, I also do not accept yourself. Such is the moment I want to commit suicide, because I myself also not left anything. Sees himself that I did not care, then how can spend loves to others? The ego has occupied a space in my heart. Therefore, we need wisdom to dispel the illusion of the ego. True wisdom is a process for converting your ego, your ego. Then, intellectual love converts to heat to every species of sentient beings. You are ready to send the power of love to everyone, love sharing them, first is to your family and to all the others in a way regardless. But love isn't just radiate for ever, it's also a way to help you in myriad Lt. Love has unparalleled power, help you no longer fear emotion. Once you grow to be love (from the heart) then will no longer room for fear. Fear will not be matched by the Center from opposite it. When you fear, from the heart may still exist, but only to the extent not yet fully developed. All of us are getting enough where her unconditional love. This is the great blessings and the reason you can still survive in this world, even when angry field dominant. The capacity of the love that we had really extremely strong. However, as long as also being ego dominated, we have developed the perfect love. Do have to wear I obscured wisdom the sight from the Center should also be overwhelmed, and if there was the onset, you can only navigate to some objects we accept in advance only. That knowing where ego and actually what is it Some people also have love but only for species that are not for animals; because fear did make that person not intended for loves animals. They said that if the love of that which is for the animals would probably arose plenty of trouble, stumbling. So, their love just for humans. The fear has hampered their love to the whole beings. This is also a form of obstacle course for healthy growth from the Center. And again, the basic reason for coming back from the ego or fear. For example, if I don't love anybody, that does not date from the heart means not exist, nor does it mean that humans do not have the Center from. In fact, I still have the feeling of love, but the emotion fear too strong prevented my love for everyone. So the only "I" is important, I hard bunch his soul and just know caring for myself only. By the Center from has hampered fearful feelings also too strong, so there are many other similar fears are always abreast of you. Therefore, we do not ever appear to take the opportunity to head up from the Center. From the heart not a morals to which we must create, to which it had always exist everywhere in life. Our life is always flooded from the mind and the whole world was the center of pronouns, Possessive. Such is the gift that we are. However, when we, or more precisely our ego is to manipulate and transform the mind, Blumea the hindrances, defilements. Love that we use right now again like a secondary weapon of mass destruction, no longer a pronoun that actually is. The mind from turning into angry pitch and then it becomes negativity. So much chaos that has been created in our lives and our society under Center. Feelings of fear created by the ego is the root causes of the chaos. Therefore, that we must know clearly where ego and essentially what it is. When talking about the ego, you have to fully show that it is a part of life. I for example, in all his statements, when you say: "I'm coming to this place, I'm to other places", "I did this, I would like to do other things," ... any time you use the words, sentences, then you're being ego dominates. Therefore, before you say or do something, try self-judgment: "wait! Wait a bit, I'm talking about what's this? The "I" that is talked about this way? " The questions at first glance may sound very simple and stupid, but then, something might come up when you thought, shining more and you will see the full meaning of the deep magic; It is not only meaningful but also give you lots of energy. I assure you, if you are mechanically in then you will accumulate more power and can reduce the ego as well as fear in you. At the time, you'll realize that ever you was scared of everything and the fear are completely dominated the ... Once there, you will be freed by has had that lens I would really exist at all. Of course here, we have yet to talk about syndrome Supreme enlightenment which is just a pure perception – a simple understanding but it also helps you relieved to go a lot with a sense of freedom, self in. It is the feeling of true freedom and true; a genuine smile and a true happiness. Such is the happy stuff firmly by this fear has been realized and lost the ability to govern. The metabolism of the ego through the major resorts of love is very important. You also do not necessarily use the term cult like mentality, that when you use from the ego, be a thorough screening of meaning: "I am referring to what? It covers what? " Just pose the question as simple as, you will gradually shed spectacle was the magic word. I mean, whether you can not understand at all, nor does it matter, the observation that will eventually bring you feeling confident and knowledgeable. Even before a confidence-whether you should not wish there to be confidence and knowing this, because the expectation is still that hope and fear – you will feel a big change in my life. It is the results of meditations on simple questions that you put out. This is like Sunrise Sunrise sessions, first light for the presence of your own enlightenment is Lt. All of us are the pursuit of happiness It is also part of my experience. I am sharing my own experience to you, not just voters comments that both experience anymore. This experience will bring happiness loving you've never known. This goes beyond the presentation of the language, but you have to experience them. And I think you will do not much difficulty in the attempt to get this experience. Many people think that in order to do so you need to study a lot, must have the capacity or a Buddhist practitioners, a devout ... I said that is not necessarily so, that you must have a passport, thorough consideration. At this time, you are not a passport what to practice. Everything you do is just obey the ego. Whatever the ego driven, you are submissive under it. ego or strong ego to the point that you are a slave to it in all the time; whenever the ego voiced is that you have to follow ... World! You never know where you're going, but keeps running, even though it makes you tired, but you still run according to the flow of desire, being driven by ego in a vague and amorphous. You keep running forever by ego keeps up with-and eventually you too tired, and worn out completely. Not only that, the longer you live with feelings of fear, so you do not have the freedom to infinity Lt, no State, no real happiness and sincerity. Without this freedom, you won't be able to reach the unconscious captain, could not reach the happiness that invisibly captain were brought to you. But when lack of the feeling of infinity Lt, you can find true happiness bridge where? Actually, all of us are in the pursuit of happiness, from the spiritual practitioners, the merchant, the women, the Wanderer, all of us. Likewise people are keen to get happiness; are looking for requested happy, but we're not happy. The considerations you see actually yourself are happiness or not. I can't answer for you by each of us is a special case. We have different concepts, different sensations, various experiences in his own way. According to my experience, we rarely have true happiness. Therefore, we always pitch in anger because we have no true happiness. By always scared should we not have happy feet. Fears for always present that the root causes of it is due to our own egos. All this fear to fear, this fear causes fear and the other like a long string. We are looking for requested happiness, but we find that doesn't know fear and ego really is how we govern. Many people may think what is shared above in the category of religion, but the fact is not so, the perception that is a big mistake. Myself also not really followers of the religion, to be honest I don't want to become a binding religious bigotry. Can I have a religion, but I personally liked themselves do not accept the player into the religion. I would like to assure you of this. I never promoted the clinging to religion, how do I do it? It is thought that, when you speak of ignorance and it is the cause of this second or else then that is religion, but in fact is not so. We often think of religion as an external object very strongly. For example, if there is necessarily an else created it, like the belief in the existence of God is the Creator who created happiness, want happiness you are pleasing God. Or are you thinking of people known as the Buddha, and you believe would have to make Him happy, He made the wedding banquet, parties, then he will maintain his happiness for you. That is the procedure type of religion, if you think so then this will just double the trouble stumbling onto alone. I'm talk about his own experiences, thoughts, a projection of themselves rather than of others. The trouble distractions will double if I keep believing that the Buddha are paying attention to yourself, You have to be responsible when I am not happy, then I have to blame Him. I am fated to pour out bugs for Him, this means I'm in big trouble. I'm here, expect him to join a something, and even sometimes delusion to I think maybe thanks to the Buddha that I'm having this beautiful period, there was a piece of cake, a tea or something like that. But happy period of time that you are having is not due to the compassionate Buddha maintain that is dependent on you, who are a delicious Cup of tea there or are doing this work over and over. It is thanks to your industry; Here we use the word career. The main industry is the law of cause and effect. When you do something and the results come from the things you did, that is. The Buddha Sakyamuni taught that you have to head up all things; regardless of what you want, you have to manually create it. He taught: "I am here as a guide, just for you to see what is happening and just so only". Such is the coaching from his dignified and valuable to all of us. So, in essence I'm just talking as we necessarily comprehend the ego. Whether you are a devout man, a philosopher, a fake, a Buddhist or an atheist, either nothing, you have to believe that the ego is the root causes of the trouble barrier. I think that understanding this issue is extremely important to everyone. If you have peace of mind and firmly believe that you already understand what I understand, it is not capital spending, then the two true understanding has come to maturity. Until then, the whole will be fulfilling. If not, you must first understand what I did, because it is the creation of all complex problems. You do not have feelings of hatred when seen in terms of ego, by hatred is in fact never nice, it creates double the hindrances distractions in my life. The emotion fear can be duplicated by clinging to religion The religious capital, accepted the plaque usually represents the notion of hatred; religions often make you there the notion of guilt or feel guilty. Sin is hateful. You hate something and the notion of sin appears, this is vengeance. All these things make you afraid and fearful emotions being duplicated. As such, the emotion fear can be duplicated by bigotry on religion. Of course, many Buddhists fanatic is often regarded Buddhism as a religion belief, and this is a huge mistake. Buddhism is not a religion. I can represent Buddhism that says so, that's for sure I have the right and the permission asserts that Buddhism is not a religion of fanatics. I cannot behalf any other religion to such assertions, but private Dharma was never a religion. Thus, as the devout or more precisely are pseudo spiritual practice, we should not "religion" Buddhism. this very important religious act, Bill has provoked more feeling of fear which we. First, you've always had a fear, then the accept and religion will again cause you many other fears. So, you have a lot of fear. That is the cause of endless chain of these successive experiences fear you. I do not oppose religion but in fact, the fanatic, accept its on religion caused the hindrances, defilements so. So we have the sense of reality, rather than keep wandering to drift in "somewhere" and thought that the things actually took place there. Real General things are not the same. There are two realities that currently exist, in one you can see, can think about and can touch, and also a reality in which the ego needs to be figured out. If there is an existing ego somewhere then you must find the hideout of the ego. Is it are lurking in the body? It's in my head, in my hand or my leg here? The where am I? It is in the General? So, you have to fully express what is the ego's general food. And despite what is hiding under the generals, it is still an aspect of reality. If you can live in this reality, Captain will manifest Throughout life, we always exist in the pilot, when you touch the bedrock of reality then infinity lt away exist, because when there's no longer any reason why you have to fear anymore. If there is fear, you also understand that at the moment you're bumping up to the foundation of reality. You will know and will certainly feel that. While right now it is not, you have no sense of modesty of reality by all has been manipulated, or at least most things have been manipulated. I'm talking about the fact that we can see, the people around us, about how we see each other. It seemed more like reality, but in fact are not, because we don't stop pirate both mind and the outside world. For example when I say: "Who is cute, the other hard preferences; This person is evil, the other result ", then this means I'm labelling them, are by their nature disguise. So it is not real. I am pirate a lot of stuff, but for being a way ignorance of that which is real. If so then what is your reality? You said that: "my reality: he was a cute, she is wicked-my reality is so terribly." You think it is real, the inference of you have indicated as such but about the fact that completely wrong. Therefore, it is important first to understand what is the reality. We talk about the Unconscious captain during the loss to France, dark reign today or some people called the era of decadence. We say "Welcome to France" means a dark period. We always say the times are changing and are increasingly becoming worse, but in fact, the conception of the new US Administration is becoming a mess. The chaos that has caused human and society in this era seem to be becoming worse. We also blame modern society that causes trouble and makes the relationship between people becomes degraded, the psychic or spiritual values disappeared, decadence. But the reality is not quite so! That's just how we perceive and see the world is decadent. Maybe I shouldn't say that, but just slightly a little chaotic. We should not blame anybody or anything, or think that today people are becoming worse. In fact, this era was not worse, people living in the modern era, including you and I also do worse. I just feel it's slightly chaotic, but in circumstances of chaos there, we still have time, there are remedies to metabolic themselves are better. Something as simple as your Awakening in the life, only just. So what is awakening? You don't have to make a great reform or a tremendous effort initiative. In fact, everything existing fluency in a natural way as inherent. The only thing you have to do, as I told you earlier, is go search and discover himself, to know what "I" lived where, "where are you", where everything appears. You need to understand that everything is rooted in ego. So the notion and the formula in every single activity, then everything would be clear. This world contains full solutions and opportunities If according to some religious perspective, we can say at this time is very bad, this is the time of dark ignorance and decadence. Yes, it is true that the decadence is there, but we still have a solution, a solution has been proposed. If we believe in hell and heaven, even when fallen to hell, still will have a method to break out of that. Therefore, we always have the solution and the opportunity to escape the misery, fallen. It's a great message, so should not have any reason why you regress, frustrated or disappointed, scared. The only thing you should have is political. As live with reality, you become ill captain. As I mentioned before, living in reality is extremely important, rather the blame for everything. For example, you blame the times, blame your friend or someone did you pitch in anger, depression, frustrating, but inordinately what have you done? You have not the proper solution. The solution is to continue to fight instinctively and make his life, of the family and society more chaos. Maybe this will create as much suffering in life, you can see it clearly. The right solution for you is to face the reality, not blaming anyone. Blame not the way true existence in this world, it stems from a lack of self-esteem, feelings of insecurity and the lack of a sense of freedom. Therefore we are very dependent on people, on the external things and sticking to it. In terms of philosophy, spirituality or religion, depends entirely on the exterior and then the blame will again appear. Therefore, you should not depend on anybody. You need independent, self, you are free to. This is what we call freedom. Self important, although you can live with your friends, with the family under the same roof. Of course, family shelters are needed to cover for you. Anything you need is relative in this world such as family, children, business ... are all part of your life and it should be respected. But along with the attention to the relative reality, you have to understand that absolute reality awareness is also essential. The relative reality that we're conversation is, by ownership, social life and all things similar. But at the same time, there is also an absolute reality, it is the foot of the mind nature of our (carries). This carries come from? He carries like? For that reason, this reality is really a treasure for humanity. The owners love such as animals, although there are wise to not be aware of the two truths, particularly as the absolute truth. This is difficult, because the annual obstacle course and career resources. I don't know whether they can be understood in a different form, though very cuteness but they can hardly recognize the relative and absolute truths. However, we get the treasure in itself, which is likely to see are two of this truth and recognize the sincerity of their value. Therefore, there's no reason why we fear or anger, depression or even desperate ... Types of feelings will never occur, because you've got two legs were real. The realization was freedom will lead you to true happiness For that reason, the insight of two relative and absolute truth is extremely important, it helps us not to blame and that gives us a lot of freedom. Aware of freedom will bring you happiness, shaking any unhappiness or fear. Happy that we are discussing is not the type of happiness is expressed in the form of appearance such as laughing, dancing or singing. This is true happiness. Also what is known as the happiness that we experience, as everyone knows, is not realistic and durable. Tonight, you have a great time at a party or a fun any time, you can eat and everything in it are all very fun. But the morning when you wake up, you will be subject to a severe headache for the first greeting of the day, followed by a negative experience lasts all day! This is an example of temporary happiness. This means that this happiness is not durable, not realistic. According to me, Let's drill discusses the eternal strength because we ourselves have been peace only in a few days. The peace lasted only for a few hours, it is very fragile and just a feeling of interwoven confused, not authentically happy. I don't think it is an absolutely pure happiness. The happiness that we feel will be completely different when in it is no longer fears, when one has to make the customs wall projection considerations, what I'm doing and what I was. Whether you are in turbulent circumstances or in a State called happiness, whether you have been scrambling at work or due to external circumstances, you remain stablize, refuge. As soon as that, surely you don't need refuge on others because you have independent "on the inside". Love is shared from the main san is, Blumea radiate the dawn Though outside, can you still need something but on the inside, you already have a refuge. Outside, you can rely on your family, job or a lot of other things and all the things that are nice. You totally happy, full of love and compassion, you are the perfect person. You share the love with everyone who visited the family, those who know you but you can bring happiness to them. This is something that the Buddhists we call the light radiates from the radiant, Blumea. However, we do not necessarily have to say those things. As a normal person, you may also feel out of this world there are always people that you look forward to living and sharing. Although they are not the great ones are the morals like tolerance, patience, true friendship, their selfless radiating a magnetism and space well-being to people around, by morals that inherently contained within them. But many of the actions itemized return, though outwardly seems perfectly fine but if you sit with them in just a few minutes, you will feel uncomfortable and even worse. The frequency of oscillation of the atmosphere because their mind completely misled, there is little love would present there. Their heart filled with fear. Though not intentionally, they are turning the external environment becomes negative, instability. Someday this can also happen to you, so you must be aware of the sensations in the mind State. Six Three la suite is the very special practice methods and effective for us. For example Three alms la suite is the sharing, you share the love love and understanding. This doesn't mean you have to share material things such as water, flowers, food, drink. Before you can share things that belong to the material, you have to know to share loves. Loves to be found inside of you first, that's my understanding. So, after growing understanding within, new friends to share the happy love. The happy love which is the alms, share. You share the money, clothing, lodgings ... what any which others need an unconditional way. This is the happy Bell Three la suite comes from the Unconscious Pilot. If there is fear, you will never bear alms and if yes, with conditions. So you will create trouble for recipients and for yourself. You will not, by Hy Festival you unsure whether to tell or not and so you will be very sore pity. It is better not to tell if also feel regret, by for so not thrilled that is a pain. But the way to it can also be a job should do, as we often say "no hardship will not succeed." But in this case, we should not regret when the alms that should share the wedding banquet Festival. How you can create your wedding banquet Festival? First, you must know how to share the love, it is Three alms la suite, standing first row of three la suite. Then, you will practice the Three la suite next as Maintenance, Essential progress, rings, meditation, wisdom in the same way as above. If you want to become a ridiculous captain, first of all you need to live the consciousness of reality If you want to reach Infinity Lt, first of all you need to live the way of reality. When discussing this, I am always asked by let her live the awareness of reality. I never talk about things far away, impracticable, in fact it wasn't until the clouds. If desired, I can say that for several days. But I really don't want to, not comfortable, the wedding banquet Festival when doing this. I don't like impracticable because it is not fact. The reality is the way that you have to solve the problems in their lives. If you understand reality, you will reach the truth, can call it Nirvana or heaven, or whatever name you want. You'll get there soon during his lifetime, right in this moment. That's the real reliable. Why do we not find requested it, instead of wasting time on things such table games towards selfless can't get? The first problem is real. Of course when it comes to reality, the people who are suffering can find that: "my reality is painful, what do I do here?" In fact, such feelings are not real. Pain, fear or anything else similarly are not the reality of you. It was the stuff being pirate by ego, by lust and the hopeless. All of this came at the same time and then form a State called misery. This is the consequence of the lack of wisdom and understanding. For example, if you get sick or hurt in the physical body, as if mentally you are courageous and strong will have effective methods of treating the disease. The courageous and strong spirit is the independence, freedom. However, when it may be too late to develop the courageous and strong of spirit, because when you are too sick, frustrated, the Chi will appear. That's why we have to find urgent solutions before the body becomes hard strain aging. The hard physical strain not only means the disease itself but also all major trouble took place in our lives. The trouble should be solve through our mind. By the way, if you get the peace of mind that the progress of the development of spirituality in your life then this is great. Here's Dhamma studies glass of reality which we aim to achieve. Therefore, you should know the importance of don't blame anyone or anything. You should not blame the times, for anybody else, including themselves. For example, when you do something bad, don't blame or blame themselves because that way, you'll never get rid of guilt. I'm not saying you've never blamed, but really it's a very difficult situation. The regret blaming ourselves is completely useless. Instead you should blame the myths of the ego. You should say: "Because I'm myths mistake should have done the wrong thing, my perceptions become not be lucid. I had food poisoning ". This means acts of evil, sin, the career of any donation that you created can be a very useful lesson for you to realize the true source of happiness, is the independent, freedom instead of my regret: "I did that awful thing, I am so useless, I am ashamed with yourself ". The regret is a type of pitch wrath, you are becoming angry pitch to yourself. Once there, you are promoting a form of other angry pitch i.e. the pitch angry with yourself. I do not think repentance or angry with yourself is good and healthy, but of course that depends on the evaluation and recognition. In the case of Milarepa, I don't know his secret motives, just know the engine outside of him are afraid an hell due to the bad karma in the past He had caused. The fear of suffering is a kind of fear. However, the fear that has been transformed, have been taking advantage of for him can be Infinitely Lt. This is a lesson for us! When fear something, we should turn that fear into the lesson. It will become a great experience and was the leading up to the rescue. So, whenever you feel fear, let's cherish the fear as a part of your life and take advantage of, rather than despite it metabolizes it or clinging to it and grow angry pitch crush his place. Terrace of wrath is also a form of fear, it will motivate us to any philanthropic actions. When fear comes up, we need the knowledge to a projection view fear come from, what the industry make up, and then try to find the solution to metabolic and take advantage of it. You should try and direct metabolic fears rather than avoiding or escaping. Although we cannot want escaped should you make peace with it and make use of it. Fear is also a part of the reality that we need to learn how to tame. If you are running IE you escape reality, this is really not good. What is not wisdom but know life awakening in reality and sought to transform the adversity around him! In my opinion, real mean railway depart, depart knowing the mistakes Some argue that lowering yourself is very good, they used it as a form of practice purify or repentance. They said that it was an effective solution to purify. Although not want to argue about this, but in my opinion, real mean railway depart, depart knowing the mistakes. Ties are the root causes of the trouble. When the deviant comments appear, intellectual understanding needs to be there, you need to realize that you have understood the mistake was thinking and action. So, if you want to blame, you should blame the conception of your own ego are very solidly. You have no right to blame anyone in this world, even if they are to punish and even worse to you. Finally, practical way, the better off you find out the causes and roots of the Act, then you will have a correct understanding and will be able to find a viable solution to become equality, harmony and autonomy with people. If you continue blaming others then this Act again creating chaos for you and the world around them. This world we had too many conflicts, wars, conflicts and all similar things ... The basic causes of the conflict is because people do not comprehend each other so there is no way to find the right solution. On the contrary, their solution for always dominated by the dualistic tendency, i.e. the distinction and accept the player into the "ego" and "object", "us" and "people" ... I very solidly, ego very solidly! Although a person of power to the extent that people are still dominated by the ego. Although they have the efforts to bring peace to the world, they remain driven by ego. So they struggled so much, they have to use weapons and similar violent solutions. However, that is not the only solution. The solution is to figure out what I'm hiding somewhere! Of course I did not have the authority, I am not one to talk this with the authorities, because they are the ones who seem to put her up on everyone. Although keeping silent but I also expect them to get the Cabinet informed evidence inside and figure out how to discover who they really are and what their actions stemmed from where. They should dig deep into the roots of the problem, then they will realize the true peace to the world. This is essential for peace, the happiness of us all. Although the number of people who attend the French today are not compared with the entire population of the world, but we should give the intelligence that we get through this discussion go home and share it with others. You can say: "Holiness preaching about two extremely important content: content is live in awakening in understanding the two aspects of reality. The second is content don't blame anyone, even for themselves ". These are the two points that you need to know the best way to live in this world. If not, you won't be able to put an end to the complex issues and reach the foot of happiness or peace in his life. You don't pirate anything Next, we discuss the pirate in your life, because the blame was the second step of the pirate. The first step is we usually paste labels for things, and then sticking to the major labels. This is not true, it leads to a lot of trouble. Instead, you should not attach accept that let everything natural as it currently is. For example, when you think someone is a good you that bigotry will lead to much confusion, sorrow. This is not true and this is the cause that leads to fear. You can also look at the person that said: "this is a bad person." If so then you're talking to? You really don't know, just guessing. According to me saying: "I think this is a bad person," the better. I mean everybody should respect when a person says: "I think that this is a bad person." No need to argue about this. However, if you make 100% that "it is a bad person" or "the other is the good" then this will cause a lot of trouble. You should not make decisions like that. Because there is no certainty in this world. If you keep getting more assertive so then more trouble sorrow will appear from the clinging accept futility. For example, for a friend, if right from the first meeting, you have be sure he is a good person to live together, though this speculation sooner or later will also create a series of trouble twice or three times. The assertive or have the prejudices of an external object, though may tentatively OK in a first period, but then will not bring anything good and a lot of big trouble will appear in your relationship. Also if not clinging to his voters, you can live with that friend whether good or bad, because you know the key of the don't accept. If there is no skill or knowledge then it is best not to be assertive or labels attached to objects. You do not comprehend what I run so far from where, how could ego determined this? If assertive is the source from where and how come? Thus the two terms "assertiveness" and "falsification", I'm using is the same as each other. You have pirate this person is bad, this is not good as it makes you quiet the media that that person is really bad. If you get out and declared that: "I think this person is bad" is okay, but you did not say so. Because you're pirate; you have determined that what you say is absolutely correct. It is also one of the causes that lead to fear. So, it really is an obstacle and you should not disguise any thing. If not pirate then we should treat all of your friends, your enemies and everything else is a part of his life. According to voter opinion and my experience, consider everything as a part of your life are very important and useful. This is a lesson, a French post extremely important. But this does not mean I force you to follow, I just want you to respect that lesson through his righteous insight. That understanding is not the officially revered, for as the theater ceremonial or bowed. You also do not have to bow to the enemy and confess this is falsification. You only need to behave in a sincere, just to keep the relationship to them, and then everything will smoothly. Your life will freely, it's great because everything comes to support, carrying cover for you. Even enemies will also help you, get you more intellectual understanding, love, compassion and the practice. As such, you will reach the whole Dhamma studies. I call it the Dhamma studies dear, do not know who else has used the term or not, but really the Dhamma studies very dear. You met the enemy, and the enemy will bring you a perfect French teacher, a lesson the significance. You met a friend and of course people that also gives you a great French post. Although you have to go through anything like the weather is hot or cold, hard or smooth … all those things are great experience, as they will help give you inner intellectual achievement certificates-gift and the greatest purpose of a reincarnation of people! END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.19/2/2013.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).