SYin si and hatred are the two close friends with each other. Young, I have had close relations with the terrace of the si. Then, gradually, I figured out that disagreed with it. Using hearts, plus the help of compassion and insight, now I had to reason than to beat be patio si.
Perhaps there are two types of si field. A terrace of the si can be converted into a positive emotion. For example, if a person has true engine, complete from introspection, and attention to someone that they didn't crave attention to warning about his actions, then there is no other choice except to use to a certain kind of force to stop the bad deeds of that person.
In my experience, if every individual knows the effort, then he or she is able to change at all. Of course, the change isn't an overnight which should have plenty of time. To change and was faced with the emotion, the plot is to analyze whether the thought would be helpful, constructive in nature, and are beneficial to us. I would like to say to the thought makes us become more secure, more comfortable, and the thought gives us peace of mind, rather than the thought of creating the insecurity, fear and anger.
Inside the body are billions of billions of different molecules. As such, there are many different ideologies, and everything kind of status consciousness (loss of na). Having a consistent review clearly inner world and there is a distinction between the status of beneficial and harmful sense is indeed wise rewarding. Once you can recognize the value of the good state of mind, you can raise them up or reinforce them.
The Buddha taught about the teachings of the four noble truths and these form the basis for the Buddhist Dharma. The third base was destroyed. In this framework, the mean state of the soul, the mind, through the approved and efforts, likewise ended the negative emotions. It is a State in which the individual has reached Consummation soul, escape the consequence of the emotions, the different sense negative in nature and afflictions.
Authentic removal status, according to Buddhism, the main seat stay, the refuge that likewise the Buddhists are approved to look up to. Why do people want to seek refuge in the Buddha not because of Buddha was a human being, that because he's got the foot condition removal.
In General, according to the Buddhist scriptures, an emotion or a loss of negative way na is considered "status triggers the disorder in a person's mind". The emotions and consciousness brings to this affliction is exactly what factors do not create happiness and causing the agitation in our hearts. At a scientific conference that I attended, one has come to the conclusion that even though the Buddha also have feelings. Since then, karuma (compassion), mercy or kindness, can be regarded as a kind of emotion.
Of course, emotion also can be positive or negative. However, when it comes to si, as we said to those negative feelings. The negative feelings are emotions create type mood is miserable, frustrating, irritating, those things which in the long run will cause the fruits thereof. The karma that ultimately led to the damage, injury to others, and this brings the pain the pain or suffering for yourself. This is exactly what we have to say about these negative feelings.
In the path of Buddhist practice Suite with the methods of visualizations for the transformation of essential resources of the si field. This is the underlying reason behind the devil. On the basis of the engine, the compassionate, in some cases, may become useful, because it gives us more strength, and allow us to act quickly. However, the anger often leads to enmity and enmity is always negative. Palm of anger is malicious upbringing.
I often analyse the pitch of si based on two levels: the human level and levels of Buddhist human levels. from, without having to rely on any religious tradition or ideology, we can also look at the roots of our happiness: the healthy, physical facilities and by good. Now, if reviews from the health perspective of the negative emotions, such as anger, were completely unprofitable.
Your mental state must always keep its silence, although there is a disturbed, worried would happen, by the all have to have that conversation. Like the waves, the outburst from the water and blend back in with the water, the agitation is very short, so they do not affect the attitude, mind you. If you remain calm, the blood pressure and etc will go smoothly, as a result of your health will be better.
Some of my close friends suffering from high blood pressure, but they have never been in landscape adjacent to the dangers of health and they also never feel tired at all. Through the years, I've met some amazing best practitioners. At the same time, I also have other friends always comfortable physically, but when we started talking to each other, few social questions in the beginning, they started to whine and sad. Although well off physically, but those people back there are quiet relaxed or soul. The result is they always worry about indigestion, eating his sleep, everything! So, clearly the peace of mind is a factor of paramount importance to good health.
Second roots leads to happiness is from the comfort of our material. Sometimes, when I wake up in the morning, my mood is hardly comfortable, so when looking at the clock, I felt really uncomfortable. But another day, perhaps because of the things experienced in earlier days, I wake up with the elated mood, fun and relaxing. At that point, look at the clock, I find it beautifully cover screw. That is also what the clock rather than any other ones should go? Such a difference from our mental attitude. It shows that, although the use of the physical facilities that provide real satisfaction or not also depends on the spiritual attitude of us all.
If our minds are filled with terrace of the si, the owner of the material we also met misfortune. Please tell of his experience I myself, as a young man, I also often sat in this page. I have tried and failed many times. Sometimes I take both calm and beat the clock! In such times, the anger has completely changed my attitude. Then I felt very remorseful for his actions. If your goal is to fix the clock, then why am I banging it on the table? Again, you can also see important spiritual attitude out stars to take advantage of the physical facilities for the satisfaction or his true interests.
Third roots lead to the happy is the equal of us. That is clearly, as your mind tranquility, security, authentically and openness, but there is great disagreement about real comments, but you can still represent, expressed on human beings. You may Ricochet inside the dissenting opinions and communicate as humans with each other. I think it's a way to create one of these positive feelings in the minds of others.
I think there's more value in the emotion of human nature, as compared to the status quo and so forth. I'm just a human being. Through the experience and discipline of mind, a new attitude that has emerged. This is nothing special at all. You, whom I think are a good academic background and have more experience than me, are more likely to change his mind. I was born in a small village, where there is a modern academic background or deep understanding of the world. Also, since 15-16 years old, I had an unexpected burden Investment Conference.
A person among you all will feel that he has a great ability; and with confidence with little effort, the conversation changed as things can be if you want to. If you feel not satisfied of your current way of living and experiencing some trouble, then don't look at negative things. Let's look at the positive side, the ability, and make the effort.
Also, when we were communicating with the same type, then the spiritual attitude of us remain of paramount importance. Even for people with no faith at all, just a simple realistic humans only, ultimate source of happiness is also still in our mental attitude. Even though you have good health, many physical facilities and have good relationships with others, then multiply the principal charm of happiness also is still inside you.
Now, you can know how to minimize the terrace of the si. First, it is important to get the foot of negative nature of these feelings, enmity, hatred. I consider the grudge is the ultimate enemy. About the word "enemies", I have to say to the people or elements directly or indirectly cause damage to our interests. Our interest is to create the ultimate happiness.
Now we can also talk about external enemies. As for enemies, we can escape or refuge is out, sometimes even able to fool it. For example, if someone is causing agitation for peace in my mind, I can avoid the escape by closing the room again quiet and sit alone. However, I can't do that with the si yard! Even if I go, it will always be present. Although I have left their doors unlocked, the anger remains on the inside. Unless you are used to a certain way, and then to get rid of it all. Therefore, and anger-and here I would like to say to the anger of the negative-for that review is the ruined the peace where my soul, so that is my true enemy.
Some people believe that the emotional constraints are not good, that the best time to wear it out. I think there are differences between the different negative emotions. For example, with the frustration, all the boredom that occurred as a result of the event was over. Sometimes, if you conceal the negative event, such as for example sexual abuse story, though like to though not this also raises the problem. Therefore, in this case, the best way is still to express the pain and to wear it.
However, for the anger, if you don't have an effort to mitigate it, it will still follow along with you and even increase further. Then, immediately with the small issues you will also instantly outraged. Once you try to control or suppress rage, then gradually even though the major event will also not make you angry.
When the si field appears, there is an important technique to help you keep the peace course in the Palm. You will not become disgruntled or disappointed by this is the heart of anger. There is a natural relationship between the people and the fruit. Once the personalities and charm that have converged in full, it is hard to crush the can prevent result London (results not process đơm spike left). The plot is known to consistently review the situation, so that right from the initial steps one can set an end to the created result. Then, it no longer continues to jump to the next stage.
In the book written about Buddhism, Guide to the Bodhisattva Way of Life (Just south of living follow Bodhisattva), the great scholar of Shantideva (Shantideva) having said that, it is extremely important to make sure there was a situation made to crush dissent, because of discontent is the seed of the fruit tree terrace of the si. This means that one has to have a certain look for the owner of the material, by its owner, and for different circumstances.
The disgruntled feelings, not fun, the loss of hope, etc we actually belong to the whole phenomenon. If there's no way to look right, then anything can also cause us to disappointment. However, the phenomenon is part of the reality, and we depend on the laws of existence. So, this brings us to an alternative: to change the attitude of himself, looking for everything, the whole phenomenon can be friends or roots of happiness, instead of becoming the enemies or the source of the mood of disappointment.
On the way, having an enemy are worse. It's disruptive to the calm of mind and crippled some of the good things in life. However, if we look at it from a different angle, just an enemy not only also gives us the opportunity to take the ring. No one else gives us the opportunity to get their rings. By where we know most people on this earth, so we at least have the chance to get the ring. Only the people we know who are causing more troubles to us really gives us the opportunity to practice the patience and drill Tuesday.
Shantideva said that the primary focus we harm enemies becomes very special. If the enemy does not have minded harm us, we will not be showing that person in enemy types, and hence our attitude would be completely different. The main focus of the new he makes that person becomes an enemy, and as such, should the enemy has given us the opportunity to practice the tolerance and the patience. Therefore, the main task was the real enemy of teachers you quote. By thinking along the lines of such interpretations, you can gradually reduce the negative spiritual emotions, especially anger.
The other question is, if you are still always humble and others might take advantage of you, should you react? This is really simple: you should act by intellect or conscience, no grudge or anger. If the situation is not good decision leads you to need that kind of action, for its part, you can – no hint of anger-take measures to respond. Really, such actions-which obey the righteous intellectual rather than the anger-very useful in practice. A measure against being taken out of anger often leads to mistakes. With the pitch not si, not hatred, we can be privileged capital more effectively.
There is a way that rings involved in owner mode to the shoulder the suffering of others. I'm thinking of the circumstances in which, by joining in the activities with which we understand the arduous, agonizingly bothered that his weapon to bear short-term to stabilise the joint, but in we believe that these actions will have consequences long term benefits.
Because of the attitude, commitment and your desire to make our long-term interests, so sometimes we stand up reception-a note and have to consider-the time difficult and troubling harmful practices which are entangled in the short term. My attitude towards others is always looking at them in the human dimension. On that, the President, the Queen or qifu gangui also nothing different, as long as there is the sincere emotions with an affectionate smile full of bad people.
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