Calm before the cooking merit.

P the psychological effects of conventional hản us when praise is welcome news, fun, happy, when cooking, resentful, angry, miserable. Such is the two extremes of the mind, which, according to the Buddha were harmful, are real. Because, from there the misunderstanding, dispute, negativity and ignorance will run out.
One day, the Buddha and pretentious Bhikkhu go on Road between Ratãgahã and Nalandã. Ði after Friar layman Suppiyo and a disciple is Brahmadatta. Suppiyo use of means of mass destruction, profanation of the French grip, cancel stock increases. by contrast, Brahmadatta youth used a myriad of media riveted the French exclamation exclamation canopy, canopy, Buddha believed to Increase.When the night has just ruined, they bring the pretentious Bhikkhu on talk to each other. The Buddha arrived, after learning that teaches the self:
"This the Bhikkhu who, if pretentious cancel stock one, French stock cancellation, cancellation of stock increases, the thou shalt not so pleasing dark spokes, increasingly contentious, born of sorrow ..."
"This the Bhikkhu who believed, if pretentious canopy, canopy, canopy French exclamation exclamation Increase, you shouldn't mind, orgasm, lesbian disguised Hy should not enjoy ..."
Gems of the Buddha teach like that, because he said that when being blameless, the evening news, when praise is harmful are disguised pleasure, and not exactly to be the words of true or false.
For us to be cancelled, insults, then hurry quickly, consider the blameless as a rival, team. A deal like that are often shared by many and to be wise. On the contrary, if we do consider only the humiliation of the stroke ring by Gerald, gets mixed reviews as to be fools.
So why the Buddha advised we should not the outrageous, angry? Because when angry sorrow emerged what harm comes to us immediately, is the loss of well-being, inner's calmly to the quarrel, argue broke and in the end both sides were not seeing the truth. In the quarter finals in the Second Chapter, the Buddha teaches that:
"When the bad guys pester, insults please try to hold their silence, as people take of holiday courtesy to others, they do not pick up, then the ceremony he was returned. As well as the backstroke the Pluck foam up, foam is not to, in contrast to fall on his face ... "
Like when is cancelled, should not rush the objections, which must consider the point right to the truth, the point would not true, what would you have, it would not have, with a calm attitude, honest, objective. Behave like that, the word cancel stock she was returned to her, and still an OK, self in.
The majority of us when were commendable, flattering the Rapture to face fresh as flowers early sessions, like the proximity to scatter his exclamation. How to behave like a lifetime for is reasonable, adapted. So why is the Buddha that is harmful and recommend that we should not react non least, vulnerable to the abuse, deception, to travel with paper? Through the word of the suite, we ease the agreed and accepted the request lacked, in the end we do not see the truth one way for sure. Moreover, a pretentious Bhikkhu that reveal thrilled, kuai releases warmly welcomed through the compliments expressed his lack of leadership is happy and expecting a situation, vulnerable to sa in the cup of the deviant mind. Although the evening was approved for a sincere way, we also have to consider things properly with the facts, it is not true to the facts, the point is, what point do not have, to avoid cases of blindness sa on nominal anchor.
Praise and cooking are the two contrasting effects, always do our inner perturbed, stimulate arousal or inhibition, bring peace or negativity, beneficial or detrimental, depending on both subject: given and received.
In the field of education, reward and blame are both taking advantage of gas is used in parallel. Past education At The most recent severe criticism of the sanctions issue, while the Western education focused on the reward. How to manipulate then on cultures, customs of each locality, so the consequences of wrong.
Your think people praise or criticism, just bring good results, when would they know to use this two contrasting forces at the right time, properly applied psychology of each object, are honestly in a spirit of passionate construction. In contrast a compliment, damn irresponsible, lacking objectivity and has use of the mind were not good, he is fully responsible for the consequences of something fresh.
Person is praise or damn, though in the case would also be dè, reviewed and leading judge correctly, there should be the side milieu of frivolity, avoid the mistake, disastrous. In other words, not complimented chemistry important or cooking, which must find out the truth, the truth of her cooking compliment. In summary, the calm before the cooking merit is the attitude of the gentler place discerning that the Buddha should so order.

END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY THICH CHAN TANH.MHDT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUNS=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.13/4/2013.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).