LIFE IS A CONFLICT.

 

"Life is conflict," here I am not saying that much of what high-sounding talk about life experiences and a Buddhist monk. We like to live life in the welfare of self, do not have the nagging pain, which is crucial. Page listen carefully reviewed by a strange but it's true. Because the Buddhists as well as the renunciation is always something sad. Than in star in your family does not have the will agree, or disagree in the temple so united together. collectives that have such things before.

Reason that there are sad, that the complaining? Now we try to check the place itself, from physical to mental, and go beyond the concepts, institutions, and finally how to escape the conflict was.

Let's look back at her man. Everyone thought that the conflict is due to the other person, or other person with it, do not think that the conflicts in the built-in myself. I say in Buddhism, but in medicine you can research to application. In Buddhism the Buddha taught this family include the integration of elements: earth, water, wind, fire. Thus, upon the ground with no wind, no water to fire upon. So what is the fight back as they say each country with fire. So in his body, not upon the wind to land there? You see where there are large varieties, the dust flying up. Thus, in the human body when drinking hot to cold to warm again. When hot drink to cool calm. Because hot water is much less fire, but cold water is much less fire, so to reconcile it. What is essential to lift up something strong to pull down, this is the story as a doctor.

Thus, in this life we ​​have to do neutralization properties factors contradictory. If the party are also sick of all beings. As the wind to land, namely the wind hit someone, they must do? Wind is the wind hit to many, it was painful symptoms all the blinds, so the land tremble winds, so we have to beat the wind. The rating is a wind down in the light, strong back. If the nose, throat more land, it branched out to grow; have to cut out, if not blocked. Clearly the land with the wind always opposed to each other, this is the other dominant impeded. So we must seek to regulate how it is balanced. So, take this body we find it is a contradiction.

In the Buddha taught that we regulate itself is like air conditioning boss four live snakes in a basket so. It always hate each other, it still wants to find ways to regulate, do not let it bite another surgery. But how much regulation? The result? Try conditioning, Air max, but at some point basket swimming hole, a few baby snakes that I was running strong. Air Conditioner good as doctors, but also on the basket will be punctured, some snakes are also running. Water running water, wind in the wind, the flames of fire, land on earth. No one can regulate the month throughout this year until there were seven hundred years. Only a limited time. Thus the body by land, water, wind, fire should be in conflict, but no inner conflict?

According to Duy mode of the Buddha, the interior divided into groups: group Compassion and evil mental concomitants. Good and evil are mixed in the mind. Sometimes things happen we should say exasperated, as overdoing it. Later, it kindness of hoppers, says he do so wrong, so we have a nagging, difficult to see for yourself, find yourself suffering, that is yourself and punish yourself. The good commandment evil, but also won the good when evil. As we should not speak badly with one, do not make the suffering, which is the heart of a monk. So that when something makes me well up, ie mental evil is too strong, it makes gods dominating hiding away. Evil uncle yelling for a while, new gods, the story has emerged output then. I should say the good that is available is available from evil. Inner we always have two things pulling together makes us skeptical of insecurity.

My opposition, are opposed to the conflict, but conflict is what? - Dun called the shield, also known as spear form. So hit the shield support teachers, play again. In our mind ready contradiction, we also prepared itself contradictory. Conflicts themselves are living with people with no conflicts? That's something nobody wants, but how are! Body conflicts, interest conflicts are others too. So there is a fight for harmony, never avoid it. Thus, in the body and mind are two things that we always have a conflict.

More broadly in the world, this world without conflict? In this world they say is negative air, ocean air. Negative to positive with each other where giving in! More positive, the drought dried, and sound more miles to the rain. Yang, always fighting each other, and which also increased more dangerous. Thus, yin and yang in the world are always opposed, not quite peace fully. There is an abnormality with the opposition. Because the gas in the world hate each other, so changing affects humans, a few days left, runny nose headache etc ... Obviously people, outer space, life on earth has resistance , inconsistent, not always entirely peaceful. Electricity also yin and yang, regulates the use of electricity as opposed to Yin and Yang, scientists today have outstanding advances. The technologies developed are unpredictable because of the use of electrical resistance. So we are not afraid of conflict of power, just afraid I can not afford air conditioning and use it only. 

Go man to man. Here I speak of man with woman. Often people are told increasingly male, female needs. Cang is increasingly resilient, as it also needs air play. So when a family with her husband, whose wife is also the fight off; the growing, the need to copy the same. So often couples also in arguing that reason. What men and women suggest they refused, the woman suggest the man refused. So see family life between men and women want to be happy easy or difficult? Has two qualities are not the same, how easy is. You see life is always conflict, there are areas that do not conflict. So to family life is regulated must be very smart. That is my personal talk between men and women, now referred to collectively.

There is a collective stance in particular, being active individual, not the same individual right view. Which is not identical with each other against. So in general, to all human beings from themselves, their families, all social conflicts. So how can we live happily, how to be happy that we insisted on happiness, demanding the same time. If the same family shall be the south end, a harbor, a party needs, how similar are. So, for this life to ingenuity, wisdom and not be able to imagine as you like. Who thought that what I suggest to everyone to hear, obey, it's all illusion. Only one suggested that his opposition more or less that's all, not everyone accepted ever before.

As such then, we must make the peaceful life, be happy? Speaking of this I remember years ago someone asked me: "Lord, if there are two enemies together the collective conception of the teacher, must make sure there are two collective harmony?" I told him: "There are water, food, no fire there." The answer is simple that's all. Do Buddhists try to consider, in fact it is just fear of contradiction, but not the main suspect is a contradiction to the human condition in the universe of the birth. Nam is not no birth, no woman is not born. Want the continuous delivery of the good, the regulation must be smart. As we have water but no fire, no fire or vice versa with no food, no water there? There must be water, fire and water smart, using fire to cook food, they have. Do not use water to extinguish it, or used fire for shallow water, no rice to eat. So smart to regulate life, if severe side also failed both. The couple left together, not the same, but do not let any disadvantaged parties that have a moderate life, not because the parts that offend their families shattered. Therefore we must be very skillful life and never subjective. Especially the male or it is the men's subjective, what also caught major parties followed, it is not good, not smart regulation. Was not smart regulation will emerge the seeds of suffering beings, so do not let the disadvantaged party new life came up to the nice, happy, happy.

But happiness in life is relatively happy. So happy it is combined by two things are not the same, how are permanent. Must try to regulate temporary life secure, temporary fun, do not have complete happiness as you all. Even the king did not like that anymore, because the anti-King also, who betrayed first do not listen to everyone. So we have to regulate for the good life. As for rice cooker we have to regulate the fire and water. Thanks to regulate water, fire should we eat rice. Likewise, in life smart regulation is happily married, happy couple, their children well. Do not ever think of using strong suppression of their people to follow. Because when people are oppressed they must follow, but in their hearts not to, how have they responded at time. So smart new harmonic balance is good, new wise people. But his good, his wisdom and his arrest is also the fact it is not wise. This is about conflict and reconciliation between people, families and society. I say regulate, regulate it somehow?

Buddha, to regulate must file two virtues: patience and blowing exhaust, namely the world say patience and forgiveness. Want to patience and forgiveness, then we must first have moral insight. I once asked that that inflation has met the obstacles created by others not? I said: Yes! Q: So do you think about who he hindered him? I answered: Before me no enemies, only friends who have empathy and sympathy not only.

Looking at life to do so. Those who have empathy with them is good, but not even those who sympathize but they are friends, do not have enemies. Thus, in the family, the couple should not consider each other as enemies? If there happens to happy and sad also think that this is not sympathetic friend, and will seek sympathy, do not ever considered as enemies. Not only the family but also the people outside, we must have an open look, love. There is the new address human suffering. In this world overflowing suffering because thought I was more powerful, ultimately causing suffering is skeptical. Understand that we live to bring peace to his people. I want to do that, then who is the enemy of all. It's life we ​​know, we skillfully.

You also see Buddhists, how many years, who are these critics, who then taunted the other time I would smile. Who do do, because they are not sympathetic, not sympathetic friends; what they say, long ago they also sympathize. Do not listen well is the word associated with each other, then eventually into a cloud brawler, no morality at all.

How family life in husband and wife know each other so fast. The couple is happy you should be peace, but if not sympathy, then you are not sympathetic, do not ever think the enemy. If that is the enemy is going to break easily broken.

That is the truth, the life of individuals and families for the collective, never quite right in its sole discretion, is about sixty to seventy percent of it is good, do not require as you all . Those who understand such claims are false, incorrect truth. Now how do we see people around you? - To practice patience. Because human beings have available "evil mental state" is angry, men and women who are also angry. When his anger is not to say other people say is not angry. So how? The right of each party to give their all, or a little. We have disabled or the cup. Controversial for the reasons which reason it is not true, usually in the strong common sense and not very reasonable. So do not demand the truth, only one strong, who are many, they must defend. Who still weak, at least not advocate it. At the same time life is.

Nowadays people use "visiting card", whether or not our galaxy is great but it also "visit", and the even lower natural does not understand or that is not "visit" as usual. Do not say what or what not, it will be. Only smart people are more dear, more supporters, or to give as true to their numbers, they responded, they follow you. Conversely though had suggested that they do not want to correct, they are not as often. So many people praise is not necessarily truth. For years we thought that many people accept, that's probably right. Not so. Probably be true to who identify deeply, not often. Is most popular in the majority of which are trends only.

Just depends upon us together, make concessions to each other to live. Do not say it to, who else do they look fine, not to think so. The husband should see his wife and then demanded to see his fine close together. So it is with two coffins. In life, we must part, to the other part, then make concessions to each other only for its fine, which is why patience of Buddhism.

But if we look at each other without forgiveness, just remember one error, the air conditioning was not skeptical? Looking for fashionable today to meet tomorrow to also booming again. It is a disease or contain it in their hearts. Is anyone upset that looking for the first time, meet again tomorrow fad, then said "I looked the second time I heard". Such regulation is not true. We must ignore the always fast, not to mention prompt back. Fasting not forget that every prompt skeptical. Referring also skeptical, the other on the field, ultimately no one fast one.

So hope you smart Buddhist patience with each other. Through patience we must blow discharged, that is fun to give the correct mirrors. Because nothing are we so foolish to quarrel with each other last. I know they do not add up all angry anymore. Do not even think I should, embrace other harassment, mai-one meeting to argue again, not all end up suffering.

The method will tolerate us to peace. Patience is skillfully regulate the flame, not to extinguish the fire, do not set fire to shallow water. In the family, because children should make concessions to each other husband and wife. Society, as an ideal that one must look at each other. The director is so noble morality should make concessions to each other, forgive each other. Thus the family, it is a new collective peace, it is fun. If so, may never know the joy of being. Husband and wife met with stiff not to talk of abdominal undesirable one, it is the biggest pain in the family. In addition to the society.

Because life is a contradiction that we must be regulated by two happy: happy happy joy patience and equanimity. To be patient, blowing exhaust, front to have compassion, that's all you, no one enemy. Three is that compassion first, then look back, forgive each other. No compassion can not have the patience and forgiveness. Just to annoy his enemies, then we never compromise. So do not even see who is the enemy, only you have empathy and not sympathy. That is compassion. Government by the compassion we should compromise, forgive each other is. We applied the teachings of the Buddha in his life, has a moral life, has been a happy family.

That's three conditions for us to regulate the conflict. But we must try hard but applications in life, if not surely will suffer only. Understand that we know life and be happy, do not lose the war than to harass never happy. That is the truth.

In summary, for the good life of peace, they must meet three conditions: compassion, patience and blowing exhaust. Speaking world is love, patience and forgiveness. Taboo is never embrace the illusion that everyone parts for us, our desire to accommodate all. That is wrong.

Experience has shown that life, I lived around the year six hundred monks, never trust me the illusion that everyone is identical and I tell everyone to hear. There are things they say not just me, but then I also omitted, not sad. Do not be sad if every bit of each, then make me die very soon. Well then what is left over, provided they are as good practice.

So you remember Buddhists, the couple has nothing left that same look, free of peaceful families, children, formal education, so people are being grown and what it ignored privacy before. Since the general should give the individual will be secure. The family not only husband and wife are not the same parents, children are not the same. To be happy, then peace must also be on the air conditioning. The difficulty is that parents never see you. Do you take fast or not fast time parents, the parents never see me, but sure what his parents have won a hundred percent. Because we believe that every child born to parents so parents are superior, their children can not argue. But in fact the birth parents' physical time being, though there was born soul. I also have a soul or a parent's own child should also be fast. As I am a teacher, what role can fast, but when he also missed. Ignoring it is fast. Thanks to my conditioning is several hundred people, as I do not catch that if people are not like her, then chased away all the time, I'm sure I live alone. Understand so we can see through smart regulation should all be nice. This is the first approach, the relative method.

Now to the second method is the absolute method, this method few people realize. Because when we treat up his mind; mind of good, evil mind of all that they have completely recovered from patience, forgiveness from all. It should be absolutely so. As Clerk of the Venerable Hue Hue Minh Energy security: "Do not think good, do not think evil, what is a hybrid version of the entry Venerable Minh?" Now this statement Hue Minh immediately recognize the hybrid version of its entry. The future is not the item that has two sides, without the first two are contradictory. No new conflicts are permanent peace. This is the purpose of Buddhist teaching we aim to achieve liberation religious fulfillment.

Just as in Tin Minh Tam, The Rising Saint said: "Credit mind dualism, nondual devotion." Trust is the mind is no longer true either. No two are believed to be true of his mind, and the kindness of mental and evil is not really my mind. A group of greedy and a gentle, calm down, two new group shows its true Display Center. To be honest I laughed Center skeptical, no patience, do not forgive anything. But if there are two things that must be compassion, patience, exhaust blowing new life alone. So long as we get through that two new permanent peace. You see the group Tuesday, Friday The left two are teaching us things. Now the latest is The Bamboo Forest, he has the verse "Huu Cu ex-wife," that is "The Question Not There." He also found, that is no longer seen two. I temporarily lead a few words in his poem:

Single property, the former wife
own shares, free kim
only hope periods Compliance
Reviews continent bass ...

That means that you see it, from past to present, serving as a finger, but forget the moon. Finger on the moon but the moon is at your fingertips. It's stupid guys. To give your fingers to see the moon on the other. "Binh depression continent," which is on land in which to drown, this is only for those who are too stupid. And both sides are still suffering, even foolish. As long as all parties are free at last, peace. So you have to understand Buddhist religious teacher, meditation to do? - To give up running in mind that the two sides. Sitting meditation is to think evil, think what is good to put all come to no longer two, if that's completely liberating. There are two never be freed. Thus we understand why they have meaning meditation, why delusion away all good, evil. Because there is still evil good treat, so be let alone both, the new center. Tam Tam is still true that, while the mind to think so ... good think evil is not the ventricles. For years we thought it was, like the finger pointing that we on the moon for the moon fingertips. Unexpectedly finger out, look at the horizon to see the moon, a practitioner must be wise in this place. Because the religious transcendence. Transcendence that is not stuck in dualistic. Do not treat the conflict through the first suffering, completely at peace themselves, so the ultimate goal of Buddhist practice is no longer seen two. To be so contradictory nature of all, nothing but opposition.

But if people do not survive, they must file two self-compassion, patience and joy discharge the new peaceful life. Initially you should practice Buddhist compassion, patience and joy before discharge to the contradictions in his conditioned life is peace. Take this as lesson may be said to have heard a little cry, "a philosophy of life". Because Buddhists live long lives without knowing how, so everyone is breeding extremism in and took his suffering, heaven shall call the land of opportunity. If that be so, probably lived very peaceful lives. If the pass is always a treat to take Scripture, did not you say is Holy Scripture, there is reason to upset. We still do good business people who do evil hate it, so there are two that is also opposed. Only when all through the last two conflicts. The meaning of Buddhism is so lofty.

The talk today if Buddhists are applied in real life it is, or, by contrast, the Buddhist school which is not much benefit. Do you remember this phrase: "no enemies in front of" the peaceful life that much then. Truth or morality, but sometimes I find it very sad that even the popular religious practice nor every enemy who, angry person. The practitioners who said angry person, other characteristics are not spiritual. Who understood life and the only end, nothing important at all. As an important question, someone responded to me is that you, not become the enemy response. So, keep on suffering only.

Many people ask me 'what he does have air conditioning for hundreds of monks and nuns is right? "I said: Who to sue the wrong person, the other left, I am hearing, I said: that the I also have it wrong, the harassment. Thus no one dared to sue again. Do Buddhists have seen is really the case? For never two people who will argue that its wrong, but how do they both have to be! so that the harassment that they have been wrong before. No harassment is not controversial, but controversy is already stirring. These experiences, from life experience to practice the Buddha's teaching a lot, but are located at the focal point. Many of the later teaching a vast legal term that is all theoretical, the nowhere of all, to have technology to let people know that life to follow.

Vietnamese Buddhist point advantage is the Tran Tam education policy yuan. Zen Fusion and not others see this and go to the other to fight each other. So people in the country according to Taoism, Confucianism is not against Buddhism. Thanks to the three religions should tie people up, it's very good point.

In summary, the purpose of the talk today is very clear, I hope you hear Buddhists and apply what I said in the lives of smart, the full meaning, see the fun now - Life is fun .END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY BACH LIEN HOA.NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).28/12/2011.